Clearly, I am talking about AA men and women. So AA women should be marrying African men? Is that the solution?
Why are there movements[ PAWGSET/DIVEST] to date/fukk cacs?
Vandelay
Life is absurd. Lean into it.
Self hate.
I don't care if you date out. I've dated out. But to celebrate purely based on the race you are dating is a form of self hate in my opinion.
I don't care if you date out. I've dated out. But to celebrate purely based on the race you are dating is a form of self hate in my opinion.
"Two sides of the same coin"- Simp-letons 
Many Divestors legit wish harm on their counterparts (even unborn boys) and CONSTANTLY make average Caucs go viral. No sub-set of PAWG-SQUAD is calling black women bulletbags or celebrating black woman/girl death. I told my girl just Sunday (she hates seeing bucks so bad) that even when men pawg they get their balogna coochie and stay out the way. Wenches go out their way to disrespect + she has herself noticed before that wenches give her jealous looks, especially when her hair is worn long (and yes, she full black
). She conceded as the most pawgers would do is try to look at her ass while out by herself, even with the white BM/Wife next to them
.The workplace/airport is it's own beast of c00nery
On Topic: The movements exist because both groups are losers who get wake-up calls regularly but want to hit the snooze. Plus their partners are on the spectrum of racist so they want to know how far is too far without judgment from the Black + Black crowd.
Many Divestors legit wish harm on their counterparts (even unborn boys) and CONSTANTLY make average Caucs go viral. No sub-set of PAWG-SQUAD is calling black women bulletbags or celebrating black woman/girl death. I told my girl just Sunday (she hates seeing bucks so bad) that even when men pawg they get their balogna coochie and stay out the way. Wenches go out their way to disrespect + she has herself noticed before that wenches give her jealous looks, especially when her hair is worn long (and yes, she full black
). She conceded as the most pawgers would do is try to look at her ass while out by herself, even with the white BM/Wife next to them .The workplace/airport is it's own beast of c00neryOn Topic: The movements exist because both groups are losers who get wake-up calls regularly but want to hit the snooze. Plus their partners are on the spectrum of racist so they want to know how far is too far without judgment from the Black + Black crowd.
There are a variety of reasons why black men date out if they do at all. It differs based on the person honestly and overall, it is complicated. A lot of the ones I've encountered actually do not put non-black women on a pedestal. They will get with a black woman but will also get with a white woman and will date based on how each person treats them. There are times when the non-black women treat them better, which is why they will comment on that over anything else. Also, they have greater access to non-black women since they see more of them in general and more non-black women will approach them than black women and the black women some of these guys approach are already taken, not interested, or simply not their type.
I will say, other factors not taken into consideration is peer pressure from non-black groups in their given circle or profession (yes this occurs and it amazes me that more people don't comment on it since other races of men encounter in these circles as well, I've commented on it a few times on here having seen and experienced it myself) and others. That's less putting someone on a pedestal and more trying to fit in or what not, if we're being honest.
So there is no race loyalty in any group in a system of WS? What are you basing that on? Isn't that the foundation of racism?I think we need to get past the "Race Loyalty" myth. It doesn't exist for any group. BW/BM are not "loyal" to eachother, they have proximity and accessibility to eachother. BM are seen as sexually desired by other women whilst a lot of men place BW lower on the attraction level or are unsure how to approach them
Due to the systems we live under, many see White people are a step up from their own race socioeconomically.
In regards to marriage, men as whole are moving away from marriage. For some reason, Black men specifically AA men in America and Caribbean Men in the UK are blamed for this
Since BM have high proximity to all these other women because of their sexual desirability you would think they would be marrying these women in higher numbers. Since proximity is the only issue.
I never blamed BM for marriage deleption. But if BM are marrying the least and have access to other women what sense does it make to only date BM from a numbers point of view especially when according to you it's only about proximity?
Oh wait it's that BW are undesirable? I'm confused. We're unwanted or not close enough.
So BM are more likely to date out because the don't put BW on pedestal, non-black women treat them better, they see more non BW daily, BW don't want them and non BM want them to date their women.
Why do BW date out?
So far I don’t see how our reasons conflict besides that you don't like statistics and prefer antidotial experiences but I will let you continue.
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Iceson Beckford
Rich In Spirit.
Most people are not loyal in any aspect of their lives. Whites are "Loyal" to eachother because they have the resources, make up the majority of population in the western world and set the beauty standard for both genders /control the narrative of desirability for everyone.
Being sexually desirable is not even a good thing as much as BM make it out but its better than being like Asian men . We arent desired as much for long term commitments as other men. Black men aren't going to be marrying these women because lets face it, people do not want Black men in their families long term. Especially AA and Caribbean Men. I even hear other groups of Black people say they dont want their kids marrying AA or Caribbean. I wish when Black men are using that study to put down Black women, they would also mention that part too.
Correct me if Im wrong but it seems like you're saying BW will only date because they wont get married. I disagree and think its because like all other humans, they see that WM have the resources and they would get a "better deal". White men just prefer Asian women and White women and the two groups have awkward interactions often.
Not only dating Black =/= Divesting or putting white people on pedestals
I know you’re taking about AA men.
YOUR argument is that AA men don’t want to marry AA women.
Then why can’t AA women instead marry African Men where their marriage rates are sky high? Why is the first thought process to go after white men in terms of marriage along with dating out racially?
Women who spew what you are spewing just want white men. And need a laughable justification so that you don’t look like a self hater.
Eternally Jaded
Superstar
I'm gonna say this breh.
If she's American, why would she want to marry someone who doesn't share her cultural interests and similarities?
Not saying she should run to a cac but outside of americanized Africans, what would she have in common with dude beyond skin color?
He's fresh off the boat/plane whatever with his expectations of what a relationship looks like and she's got her own experiences and expectations.
That's 90 day fiancee but for real.
They don't put non-black women on a pedestal. The ones that treat them well, they stick it out with. Some that date out ended up with a black woman because the non-black women did not treat them better and the black women treated them better. It honestly sounds like you're arguing in bad faith.
And I don't hate statistics, I don't care for someone misusing stats and applying causation to a correlation without the means to do so.
As for why BW date out, it differs the same way.
I think we need to get past the "Race Loyalty" myth. It doesn't exist for any group. BW/BM are not "loyal" to eachother, they have proximity and accessibility to eachother. BM are seen as sexually desired by other women whilst a lot of men place BW lower on the attraction level or are unsure how to approach them
Due to the systems we live under, many see White people are a step up from their own race socioeconomically.
In regards to marriage, men as whole are moving away from marriage. For some reason, Black men specifically AA men in America and Caribbean Men in the UK are blamed for this
Facts
It’s only suburban black people who live in white areas who became conscious on this “race loyalty” thing.
You’re correct that how black people operate is really based on proximity.
That’s why a black man or woman who isn’t from a black area won’t care about general black issues or might even say they don’t exist. The ones that are more likely to do the opposite.
The average black man and woman aren’t in a general state of pro blackness unless being overtly terrorized by cacs like back in the 60’s or experiencing constant racial discrimination. And when not are just trying to make a living and support their OWN families.
It would be great for the majority of black people to be on pro blackness/loyalty but that is not the reality we live in.
Kingofthereal
King of kings
I personally think it’s because nikkas love to say the quiet part out loud. It’s already known what time Asian bytches on. They prefer white men, they’re not screaming it because they don’t care about the attention and they’re gonna continue to do it.
Black folks, I love us but I noticed we talk way too fukking much. The black people bragging about fukking other races want some type of brownie points for it to me like to say “hey, I was good enough to pull this type of person that’s not black.” Like it really matters when it doesn’t.
Especially when it comes to white women, white women getting smutted out is nothing new.
Black folks, I love us but I noticed we talk way too fukking much. The black people bragging about fukking other races want some type of brownie points for it to me like to say “hey, I was good enough to pull this type of person that’s not black.” Like it really matters when it doesn’t.
Especially when it comes to white women, white women getting smutted out is nothing new.
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The first and second paragraphs contradict each other.
Actually WM marry Hispanic women the most not Asian and the only Asian women who marry out in large #s is Japanese.
Yes I agree that BW also marry out because WM generally have greater resources however that is not relevant if he isn't going to marry you which is why I focused on marriage. Marriage is traceable. Dating is not.
What cultural interests will a woman who talks about “black loyalty” and “black marriage” have in common with an AMERICAN cac male?
That only makes sense if the woman is bullshytting and really just wanted a zaddy.
You can’t say you’re race loyal and be talking about black marriage but then try to say you’re gonna date out racially and exclude black non AA men because of possible cultural differences. I thought the goal was to secure a black marriage?
Iceson Beckford
Rich In Spirit.
How do they contradict eachother? If media flipped things on its head and made Asian men the beauty standard or Black women then things in dating would change. People are loyal to what is either familiar and accessible or what they deem their best option.
Okay and if it isnt Asian I stand corrected, they still dont like BW like that
Both Black men and women need to stop this lame point scoring and making excuses for their gender. A lot of Black men and women are self hating and have low self esteem.
I dont wish to talk about this topic any further but I'm glad we could have a polite discussion unlike other people had with you.