What is this based on? Interactions in real life, or your perception based off whatever social media algorithm you're stuck in? This idea that only black women aren't "in check" is ridiculous. Go to the west coast (or just about anywhere in the US tbh) and tell that to Asian women, who regularly refuse to date Asian men. Go tell that to Mexican women dealing with the shyt they go through. My girlfriend is Mexican btw, I've seen first hand how their women react to the way their dudes are conditioned to do nothing around the house. I'm talking eating and then just leaving your plate on the couch for your girl/wife/mom/etc to get it. Go tell that to Indian women, who deal with arguably the worst men on the planet and outright refuse to fukk with them in America (not in all cases, but in many cases).
Black men get disrespected all the time but can we really say that Asian men, who are significantly more successful than black men, don't get disrespected all the time too? My point is that brehs are going to get disrespected no matter what but I'd rather deal with that from a position of leverage than the position we're currently in. Not all the disrespect would end...but a lot of it would if more black men were in the labor market, going to school, engaged politically, etc. I don't mean engaged politically as in every 4 years. I'm talking about your local city; your sheriff, school board, knowing who is supporting loans for black business owners, etc. Politicians feel comfortable with the "Pookie" shyt because they know you aren't going to do shyt because you can't do shyt. Change that dynamic and the tone will shift.
All that being said, yes I am voting for Kamala and have no issue with her this November. I'm just tired of the bullshyt.