This why Im slowly giving up trying to chase women. Many of yall don't know what you want, get into relationship with a guy you like even if he's not the right kind of guy, then complain that all men are trash.
But, I think I can try to understand what OP is talking about: When OP is talking about "Hood" dudes, she probably talking about how dominant, aggressive, yet nonchalant type of black dude with street cred. Not exactly some mean thug that does crime all the time and treats her like shyt. However, If OP's ideal guy did do some illegal activity on the side, she wouldn't mind if only it's kept on the DL, he's not killed or any serious danger, and he could provide for her. That's my guess if OP isn't being clear. Those are the types of dudes most girls get at nowadays, so I can't complain no more. It is what it is.
however, IMHO, many of these relationships don't last.
But, I think I can try to understand what OP is talking about: When OP is talking about "Hood" dudes, she probably talking about how dominant, aggressive, yet nonchalant type of black dude with street cred. Not exactly some mean thug that does crime all the time and treats her like shyt. However, If OP's ideal guy did do some illegal activity on the side, she wouldn't mind if only it's kept on the DL, he's not killed or any serious danger, and he could provide for her. That's my guess if OP isn't being clear. Those are the types of dudes most girls get at nowadays, so I can't complain no more. It is what it is.
however, IMHO, many of these relationships don't last.
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