There's something to this.
Nerdy, average/meh black women with a cool personality and good values will happily date and marry a breh on that same level. Seen A LOT do this but mainly in college. These were the broads that figured shyt out early.
Now.....the ones that are more physically attractive?
I don't think I've ever seen a decent looking sista pull a man below her in looks. Just about every white and Latino breh I see that's a "5" or "6" will be with a broad about one notch above himself. Asians tend to date on level......sistas have way more confidence and will reach above their level.
Most women aren't confident enough to try to pull a man out their league for a long term relationship, except black women. That's where all the horror stories come from. You're a masters degree holding sista making 6 figs and are a "5.5" in looks but mostly looking for brehs that are "7's". She dealing with brehs that have more options and then inevitably he fukks around on her. She's not happy with Timothy because he's ugly but not happy with Tyrone because he's a fuccboi. Even little black girls will be quick to call someone ugly
or say "her breaff stank."
That shallow shyt gets implanted early as fukk
Outside of rich athletes/celebs, I can't think of too many situations where a breh pulled wayyyy out of his league with a sista. Seen brehs pull white broads and Latina broads like that
. What they find attractive seems a little different tbh. More rugged and less pretty