who looks more black as a blasians? me or vic?

who is more black?

  • Vic

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So do you think your issues with your blackness comes from your mother since you stated earlier biology effected your connection to southeast asians?.
 

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Is this Gundamzeta from the other board ?
I was a lurker there, and I always wonder if he was some king of :troll:...
I mean, your obession with your race (if true) is really pathologic, you should see some psychologist, serioulsy dude, you gotta bypass this. Just say you're asian and get over it ASAP, above all if you're 30 on something.
And WTF @ you posting your own family pictures on this (particularly) message board ?!?
 
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I mean, your obession with your race (if true) is really pathologic, you should see some psychologist, serioulsy dude, you gotta bypass this. Just say you're asian and get over it ASAP, above all if you're 30 on something.


that's the question i have been wondering my whole life. Why should I just say i'm Asian? Why am I an Asian and not a mulatto? I wasn't raised on anything but black culture, and 99.9% of all my family interactions are with Black family members.

Yet, why is there this big wall between me and my extended family? Why aren't we close? Why can't I connect with Black people? Why don't the women who have black fetishes have any interest in me? Why is it considered interracial dating if a Date a women of the Same race as my mom? Why do most women who are the same race as my mom have reservations about dating me?

It's not an obsession with race. It's a belief in something. I believe that Race is based on Biological factors ONLY and culture has a minimal impact. My entire life has told me that. If somehow i was born with African phenotypes, my entire life would be different, and I would have a entirely different identity.

Whether we want to acknowledge it or not, the question of Race is the most important social issue of our time. It determines who were are, who we associate with, and where we live. Answering that question will solve most, if not all, of our social ills.
 
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Let's have a serious discussion here. I"m supposedly half black, but I'd say that 98% of all black girls would never even think of dating me ever. In fact if I approached one, they would probably laugh at me.

It's not that I have problems with women. I've been "dry" for a total of maybe 1.5 years in my entire life. I have had 2 5 year long+ relationships and I'm only 30 years old. I've never been a "lonely" person when came to women.

If I became some successful music producer, which I know would be impossible because I'm Asian, you think Kim Kardasian or some other Jungle fever groupie would be interested in me. I seriously doubt that. Wouldn't I be some "Black" superstar, though? How is that possible if Race is "cultural"? Simple answer is. Race is Biological, it's based on Genetics.
 

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that's the question i have been wondering my whole life. Why should I just say i'm Asian? Why am I an Asian and not a mulatto? I wasn't raised on anything but black culture, and 99.9% of all my family interactions are with Black family members.

Yet, why is there this big wall between me and my extended family? Why aren't we close? Why can't I connect with Black people? Why don't the women who have black fetishes have any interest in me? Why is it considered interracial dating if a Date a women of the Same race as my mom? Why do most women who are the same race as my mom have reservations about dating me?

It's not an obsession with race. It's a belief in something. I believe that Race is based on Biological factors ONLY and culture has a minimal impact. My entire life has told me that. If somehow i was born with African phenotypes, my entire life would be different, and I would have a entirely different identity.

Whether we want to acknowledge it or not, the question of Race is the most important social issue of our time. It determines who were are, who we associate with, and where we live. Answering that question will solve most, if not all, of our social ills.

Aren't you married? Why are you worried about what women think of you? Why don't you post on Asian forums if that's what you identify the most with? If someone told you, that you saw the world exactly as it is would that make you happy? Would your life be better? Have you looked into therapy?
 

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Let's have a serious discussion here. I"m supposedly half black, but I'd say that 98% of all black girls would never even think of dating me ever. In fact if I approached one, they would probably laugh at me.

It's not that I have problems with women. I've been "dry" for a total of maybe 1.5 years in my entire life. I have had 2 5 year long+ relationships and I'm only 30 years old. I've never been a "lonely" person when came to women.

If I became some successful music producer, which I know would be impossible because I'm Asian, you think Kim Kardasian or some other Jungle fever groupie would be interested in me. I seriously doubt that. Wouldn't I be some "Black" superstar, though? How is that possible if Race is "cultural"? Simple answer is. Race is Biological, it's based on Genetics.

BULLshyt. If you were a cool ass guy who isn't so uptight they would go crazy over you because you have color and obviously some hip hop culture. Look at Timothy dela ghetto the asian guy, his girl is bad, she looks black, latin or mixed and his last girl was latin and bad but he is in LA plus he knows how to laugh at himself and not be so serious. The only problem would be getting with someone with self hate like your mom or the cycle will continue. Being that you grew up around it you should know it when you see it and avoid it and move on to the next. I had a roommate who was filipino who kind of looked like you but acted like timothy dela ghetto(look him up on youtube) or whatever his name is and he was cool with everbody and the chicks loved his ass. If he was half black I would have loved to hear his story and hang around him more. He taught me how Filipinos eat rice by using a fork as a shovel to push the rice into the spoon instead of using your hands and that was wild to me. If he was the way you are Iwouldn't want to be around him to learn anything. You got the potential but your letting the fools you grew up with fukk up the time you to enjoy yourself and that is what EVERYTHING on this planet is striving for. Also musis as wellas anything that requires skill will definitely help you overcome the race shyt because it shows your worth and that is seen nobody really cares about your race. Why do you think most talented and rich people can get so many women and friends?. It's because they have proven worth and can command more respect while people who do nothing skillfull and unique always talk about how great they are because of a few people in their family or race who did do exceptional things that helped either them or the world BUT they haven't done shyt. It's low self esteem and using others to make themselves look great which is a sign of laziness and being batshyt crazy.
 

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that's the question i have been wondering my whole life. Why should I just say i'm Asian? Why am I an Asian and not a mulatto? I wasn't raised on anything but black culture, and 99.9% of all my family interactions are with Black family members.

Yet, why is there this big wall between me and my extended family? Why aren't we close? Why can't I connect with Black people? Why don't the women who have black fetishes have any interest in me? Why is it considered interracial dating if a Date a women of the Same race as my mom? Why do most women who are the same race as my mom have reservations about dating me?

It's not an obsession with race. It's a belief in something. I believe that Race is based on Biological factors ONLY and culture has a minimal impact. My entire life has told me that. If somehow i was born with African phenotypes, my entire life would be different, and I would have a entirely different identity.

Whether we want to acknowledge it or not, the question of Race is the most important social issue of our time. It determines who were are, who we associate with, and where we live. Answering that question will solve most, if not all, of our social ills.
Gundumb back on the other site your wrist-cutting lamentations about what a tortured mixed-up soul you are used to usually get greeted with insults and mockery and that was due to the fact that you were a disgusting, unlikeable Hitleresque evil racist c*nt. You haven't shown that side of you on this site much, so I'll just be real with you and not make fun of you.

You're OBVIOUSLY using race is a cover to try and explain away all your psychological and emotional issues. You are saying that you cannot connect with black people, but I specifically recall you saying in one of your other lengthy memoirs that you have only had one friend in your adult life and you are estranged from your parents and mostly everyone in your family. You can't seem to connect with people in general apparently. You have some personality quirks or hangups that keep you from developing lasting relationships with people and you are blaming that on race, just like you blame everything else on race.

This absurd conclusion of "black people don't accept me because I don't have enough blackness in my genes" is belied by the fact that there are plenty of people who are most comfortable around other races, or races that they may not be genetically closest to.

One of my friends from back in the days is a phillipino dude. He was always pretty popular and fit in well with people. He had black and white friends. Another cat I know is a white dude from the projects and his entire social circle is black people and he has a black wife and kids with her. I am half black, and don't look phenotypically mostly black (I looked more black when I was kid...it's weird) so how is it that all of my friends are black, I hung around with almost all black people in high school and college, and every girlfriend I've ever had in my life is black?

You are fixated with race and using it as a means to try and explain away issues in your life that are unresolved and that you are too scared to truly tackle. Believe me, I know how important race can be in how it affects someone...I'm biracial too. But you simply have a lot of insecurities and are uncomfortable with your individuality so you try to use race as a scapegoat for all your ills and a tool to try and make sense out of everything. Guess what? Most things in life don't make any fukking sense. Stop trying and just live. Stop posting videos and pictures of southeast asian people and bragging about their accomplishments in these laughable, pathetic, desperate attempts to try and define yourself by living vicariously through other people. Stop memorizing your DNA haplotype composition and measuring the dimensions of the back of your head and all this dumb shyt. Stop hating black people for not accepting you.

You have a wife, a Master's, and a decent job. Your living conditions are probably better than 90% of the people on Earth. There's not reason why should be this unhappy and hateful. You said you had a pretty traumatic childhood and grew up in a drug house or something like that right? So what do you think really had a greater impact on you in terms of the issues and problems you have, that and other trying experiences or your damn 23andme map? You need to swallow your pride and seek professional psychological help from someone qualified. Google cognitive behavioral therapy. Living in northern California, you're in the proximity of some of best mental health practitioners.
 

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Let's have a serious discussion here. I"m supposedly half black, but I'd say that 98% of all black girls would never even think of dating me ever. In fact if I approached one, they would probably laugh at me.

It's not that I have problems with women. I've been "dry" for a total of maybe 1.5 years in my entire life. I have had 2 5 year long+ relationships and I'm only 30 years old. I've never been a "lonely" person when came to women.

If I became some successful music producer, which I know would be impossible because I'm Asian, you think Kim Kardasian or some other Jungle fever groupie would be interested in me. I seriously doubt that. Wouldn't I be some "Black" superstar, though? How is that possible if Race is "cultural"? Simple answer is. Race is Biological, it's based on Genetics.
:ohhh: My bad, sometimes I can't tell whether you're hybrid trolling or not.

Now to diagnosis the problem. I take it, at 30+ you still haven't figured out the basic things that attract women.

Human Instinct - Deepest Desires (subtitrat in romana) - YouTube

watch to til 11:45

And

Human Instinct - Deepest Desires (subtitrat in romana) - YouTube

watch til 28:34

After this you should be able to gather how fickle women can be. Biologically women are wired to want security. The common stereotype is the hyper masculine alpha male the #1 preference but this isn't 100% true either. Confidence and not being sohh self-conscience are really the key, this can override most physical attractions.

The next thing they are attracted to is stability. Women are the child barers sohh they like to feel comfortable knowing that they can raise children and not have to worry about certain fundamental things. Race isn't too big of factor in the modern day dating scene. Every race has women who are: sluts, gold-diggers, get cheated on, cheat, single, successful, honest, virgins,racist, stick their own race, never attracted to their own (AnotherGirl)etc.....Once you realize this, you'll never take any negative remarks too seriously.

Hypothetically if you were to become a successful "music producer" there's a 99.9% chance, tons of trollops will be knocking at your front door. The only problem is, they'd most likely have hidden agendas which involve getting in your pockets. Just like you'd be trying to get in their pants :manny:

Honestly, I'm no psychologist, but any rational person can see that you are still hurting for acceptance from the black community in general, despite trying to throw us under the bridge every chance you get. Like VVD said, please seek professional help...

Here's a bonus for you :eat:
The Interracial Relationship Forum -
 
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I didn't pose those questions in my previous post because I complaining or feeling sorry for myself. I'm simply describing an empirical reality. this is A reality that can only be explained by one theory--that race is Biological concept.

My biology determined my race, my life, my life outcome. Just as it determined yours.
 
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