I had to rep you for this comment, it might be the comment of all comments I have ever read on the coli.
which will lead up to this comment which pretty much puts everything in perspective.
In a white patriarchal society like this one, very few will actually have the balls to directly criticize and castigate the ones pulling the strings and the source of power. It's easier to deflect to black men considering how many racist stereotypes are directed at us even though we don't and never held the power in this society.
The same powers that condition young women of color to think of white men as the best option for them as well as their own are the same ones that condition women of color and people in general to develop an insidious and unnatural hatred of black men. PERIOD. It's now to the point where every and any negative quality present in the human lexicon is all projected on us! Even these so-called social justice movements that are designed to benefit humanity (feminism, LGBT rights, anti-animal cruelty, etc) go against black men....
"oh black men are the most homophobic"
"only white men understand feminism and equality for women, black men are too busy calling women bytches and hoes and are misogynistic and this and that..."
"ugh...remember Mike Vick and them dogs" *cause lord knows people see the life of a dog as more valuable than a black man's"
This is the same force that allows BLM, an organization built off of the bodies of black men killed by police, to become in essence an anti-black male group designed to destroy the black family.
Whenever anybody of any race, of any gender, of any ethnicity, of any relgion, gives you attitude, downtalks you like a child, etc...just remember this.
Cause that's the same bullshyt being regurgitated at you. That conditioning that sees you as a black man as being unevolved, backwards, primitive, unintelligent, uncivilized, unprofessional, untrustworthy (with work, with business, around women, around children, etc.), hypersexual, crazed, vulgar, and animalistic that needs to be contained from the public that's unfit for society and to be around people. The Zoo (prison) is much better in the back of their minds...or a coffin...or better yet, not around at all so they don't see you or think about you.
White supremacy and America and Westernization has truly DEVASTATED the minds of black men, black women, and everyone else. Even throngs of our own women have been turned against us and led to think we are the cause of all the problems in the world like everyone else.
I'm sadly led to believe at this point if a state sanctioned genocided carried out by police against black men was instituted, many would have no problem with it. Considering the way how there are no repurcussions for killing a black man thanks to stand your ground, zimmerman, darren wilson, etc....this society rewards them for doing so and they get donations and it's become normalized and accepted.
I'm headed to Nigeria in the next couple of years, at this rate it's gonna get terrible for black men...really terrible.