You are 100% correct. I find in general though a lot of Black men and women are naive about the significance of White people fukking, dating, or even marrying Black people. You would be surprised how many can retain old habits/thoughts and rationalize it as their Black partner and their immediate family being 'good ones'. This can rub off on mixed kids as well if they aren't raised with a healthy Black perspective.
I can't find the article, but I remember in 2016 when the Right turned on Megyn Kelly hard after she dissed Trump (I think it was the same time as the Roger Ailes sexual harassment came out too), it came out that some Fox News employees were running a secret FB group dissing and gossiping on everyone in the company. One thing the article mentioned was these employees (all White men) labeled Megyn Kelly as 'most likely to be sleeping with Black men' as a diss/joke. I always wonder how she must have acted to deserve that...but see her continued thoughts and actions and even if Tyrone was pounding it changed her worldview ZERO.
Same with the recent credible allegations Tamron Hall was fukking Trump. He still shyts on Black folks as bad as ever.