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Real men aint having these conversations with women period.

Nah b. Real men talk to women.

That's the problem with the new generation is they don't talk to women. They don't know what women like or what they are interested in. They just talk to other men about women. They don't cold approach. They don't go to parties or bars or clubs. And I'm not talking about the incels that had a girl laugh at them in 4th grade and never got over it.

They all see the same couple of broads on the internet and based their entire worldview of women off those broads.

Some of these young cats really have like 15 male friends and no broads. Just hanging out, texting and calling a bunch of "bros" and shyt. They meet other males at the gym, at parties, at bars, at work, car meets and social groups but are scared as fukk to talk to women.
 

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YO. this is crazy.

Edit- i thought this was the superbowl thread :gucci:
 

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yes of course, that's common. It usually is guys who they would never really date, and they are subtly kind of disrespectful about him to their friends. Same way men do. They compartmentalize. One told me all the nicknames for hers, it was like "broke singer", "Hippy dude", "vegan dude",

but, what I always thought was interesting is the merging/mutual exclusivity of sex and money. If you have good sex with someone, you can't go out for dinner ONCE? Can't grab gelato before/after? They say no, because that would just be your boyfriend, but who came up with these rules?

That was something that always interested me, as far as the structure of how we are all trained to think.
 

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You guys really sit and listen to women that talk about having “rosters” and “rotations”? shyt is so masculine:scust:

And regrettably is usually a specific demographic doing this :francis:
The roles switched.
Issa generation of men who came up under single moms... maybe generations of single moms and those men don't know how to be their grandfathers 'cause either the family fractured or the man didn't live long enough to bridge the generation gap. Even if he did, lil man ain't tryna hear that comin' up so this what we got. More and more men being born in the Matrix and don't know how to unplug 'cause they been imprinted in they formative years with a feminine idea of masculinity. It's normalized by moms bein' the only one around, and her protecting her son in ways that stunt his development into being a man.

'Boys will be boys' was understood as boys practicing and developing their masculinity?
Well toxic masculinity limits that so boys gotta be boys in the domain of a woman's idea of masculinity.
And because the father ain't in the picture, dudes grow up with inconsistent and varied views of manhood and emulate what they choose instead of what could have been instilled in them by the men before them or around them 'cause they mom don't want them around certain types of men.

...and a mother can decide to keep her son away from men she don't want her son around, even if it's good men with a rough exterior.
Then you gotta think 'bout two-parent households where the bio father in the picture but don't have control over the household, same for stepfathers.
When a boy become of age without mentorship from other men, he gone bump his head along the way and might even continue the cycle.
 

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Nah b. Real men talk to women.

That's the problem with the new generation is they don't talk to women. They don't know what women like or what they are interested in. They just talk to other men about women. They don't cold approach. They don't go to parties or bars or clubs. And I'm not talking about the incels that had a girl laugh at them in 4th grade and never got over it.

They all see the same couple of broads on the internet and based their entire worldview of women off those broads.

Some of these young cats really have like 15 male friends and no broads. Just hanging out, texting and calling a bunch of "bros" and shyt. They meet other males at the gym, at parties, at bars, at work, car meets and social groups but are scared as fukk to talk to women.
We'll be aight.
 

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yes of course, that's common. It usually is guys who they would never really date, and they are subtly kind of disrespectful about him to their friends. Same way men do. They compartmentalize. One told me all the nicknames for hers, it was like "broke singer", "Hippy dude", "vegan dude",

but, what I always thought was interesting is the merging/mutual exclusivity of sex and money.
If you have good sex with someone, you can't go out for dinner ONCE? Can't grab gelato before/after? They say no, because that would just be your boyfriend, but who came up with these rules?

That was something that always interested me, as far as the structure of how we are all trained to think.
Was hookin' up with this woman way back who had a roster.
After a while, she start goin' through her roster seein' who she can get more out of. After a couple months, she recommended we get some takeout or sumn' and we got a little sumn'. That night and a couple nights after she kept callin' to talk. She wasn't callin' to link, she was callin' 'cause even though she had a roster she was tryna promote me to a boyfriend 'cause I was more willin' to do the things boyfriends do the other dudes on her roster wouldn't.

Y'all ignore it, but gettin' a meal with the women y'all smashin' a big deal for them 'cause it mean she okay bein' seen with you in public spaces.
She can get a vibe to see how a relationship could go 'cause she test drivin' you 'cause you opened your boundaries to goin' out with her.
See, you gave her the green light to try you. 'Cause on the flipside, you would not ask a woman whom you wasn't really feelin' outside a link to get sumn' to eat. No, you do that with women you tryna see some longevity with.

For them it's the same thing although they might see it different, the reason for the act is for the same outcome. She want something a lil' more stable and she usin' her roster to find that stability. And don't have good pipe. Don't have good pipe and be open to be seen with her when she suggest it.

So, if you layin' wood and she start askin' for gifts and outings, callin' late night, it's because she picked you outta her roster 'cause the way you been handlin' it showin' her that she can cuff you... it's not the other way 'round brew. If she initiate you doin' more than layin' wood, she not choosin', you allowin' her to try to pair with you.

If you smashin', keep them boundaries and stop listenin' to these R&B rappers thinkin' smashin' and gettin' a meal later or light cuffin' some playa shyt. You makin' y'self a boyfriend prospect and she gone show you.
 

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yes of course, that's common. It usually is guys who they would never really date, and they are subtly kind of disrespectful about him to their friends. Same way men do. They compartmentalize. One told me all the nicknames for hers, it was like "broke singer", "Hippy dude", "vegan dude",

but, what I always thought was interesting is the merging/mutual exclusivity of sex and money. If you have good sex with someone, you can't go out for dinner ONCE? Can't grab gelato before/after? They say no, because that would just be your boyfriend, but who came up with these rules?

That was something that always interested me, as far as the structure of how we are all trained to think.

They don’t want people to see them together publicly.
 

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women nowadays have a great way of creating there own worst enemies :pachaha:
 

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You see it. New age COINTELPRO working on these simple ass nikkas hook, line, and sinker. But these are the discussions the “culture” loves. These are the “tough conversations” I constantly hear them say we need to be having. Yee is damn near 50 and all she does is facilitate and participate in nowhere conversations such as this. Lost tribe smh

Yeah, that's the shyt I don't understand from these folks. We really taking a conversation between a nearly 50 yead old woman and two people that are closer to being half her age than you'd like (but I guess the "Quit hanging around people that much younger than you" conversation isn't applicable here) about some shyt brehs really should've in high school or college at the latest seriously. The fukk?

I'm not even fake Coli for the sake of argument confused, I'm legit confused. Are we really at a place where people need to listen to a podcast to know that women that are sexually active likely have a guy they know they can hit up for dikk whenever? Are the young brehs really not actually talking to women like that?
 
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