I hate telling people how to live their lives, especially when I don't even know them, and especially when I'm only 20 and don't really know shyt myself. But to that female here talking about having interracial kids all I've got to say is, you'd be doing an extreme disservice to your children if you didn't teach them this kind of discrimination exists. Although I will say this is not something you should actually have to burden (because tbh, you will fully never understand the intricacies and this is just the truth), this is something that's more than you and would actually fall more on the shoulders of whatever color man you mate with. But as the mother of those children it is your responsibility to be at least cognizant of the situation, you cannot afford to have your mixed children "blind" to the world because the world will not be blind to them. You say you're still learning from your boyfriend about these issues, ask him what a "nikka wake up call" is because it's the very thing that keeps us from being like you and "blind". You being the skin color you are you can afford to live like this, most white people front like they live like this even though they don't. Being black, you can only get so far in this society before society reminds you you are black, and this is unfortunately what is going to happen to your biracial children.
And I saw a comment about The-Coli.com. From what I can see, most of these race threads and comments (outside of the usual pawg this or that) on this forum aren't made by black people. The vast majority of them are masquerading as blacks to promote the viewpoint of black men and women being ignorant and inferior. Some of yall don't want to think that people are actually paid to come to these forums and do this shyt and that it's just white losers in their basements, that's not true. It's both them and people paid by certain agendas. I don't know why these people aren't being banned, I will say that The Coli is the only website I visit who doesn't ban these people immediately. I'm sure it has something to do with race threads generating the most clicks on this website outside of the game threads or WWE threads (or Kind Gentleman threads), but I don't think the clicks are worth the continued degradation of this community here and it's something I'd like to see cleaned up for The Coli in 2014.
Anyway, and it's not just white people and their trickery, black people are feeding into this bullshyt too and actively helping those white people in tearing us down. The truth is as African Americans we're being programmed to idolize whites. Some of us follow the protocol and go along with the brainwashing (aka "c00n" or bedwench), then there are those of us who take a much more staunch in maintaining blackness, then there are those of us in the grey area. Unfortunately what happens to a lot of black people is they'll get mistaken for someone like @
Chris.B or one of those women from Lipstickalley who would willingly allow to be spat on for the company of a white man, and get unfairly attacked if they date someone out of race. Both blacks and whites look down on IR relationships, but it's a little more personal when it comes to blacks. If we don't preserve us, no one else will. When we're being taught that "white is right", the white man created and did everything and we were just along for the ride except for that MLK guy, and the entire cultures and inventions that our people created are getting erased or being credited to a white man, this is what we got. You're left with a view (albeit an extreme one, these coli dudes aren't running around calling people cacs) of an extremely dysfunctional, insecure, manipulated, community of people who hate themselves.
TL;DR - Black people are fukked in this country whether it by our own hands or the hands of those in charge, and you need to do your very best to teach your children about all of this instead of sweeping it under the rug. If you won't bring it up to them then someone else will have no problem doing it.
This comes with the territory of being black and dating/marrying/breeding outside of your race..
