Where the hell have you gone black fathers

[audemarzz]

 

[Originalman]

We still here contrary to what the haters say.

Some of us even taking care/mentoring kids who biological mommas and daddies ain't even there for them.

 

[Y2Dre]

I don't have any children of my own but I have my 3 year old god daughter. That's us at her pre-k graduation.

She's Trini and PR. Her Mother (one of my really good friends for 10+ years)has her in an African dance class.

We have her on an organic diet, no soda/juice/candy or red meat. She only drinks rice milk too.

We make sure to buy her Black dolls like Queens of Africa (she has 3 ) and Doc McStuffins.

She's just great, smartest kid in her class, couldn't of asked for a better child.

Very proud of her

 

[audemarzz]

I don't have any children of my own but I have my god daughter. That's us at her pre-k graduation.

She's Trini and PR. Her Mother (one of my really good friends for 10+ years)has her in an African dance class.

We have her on an organic diet, no soda/juice/candy or red meat. She only drinks rice milk too.

We make sure to buy her Black dolls like Queens of Africa (she has 3 ) and Doc McStuffins.

She's just great, smartest kid in her class, couldn't of asked for a better child.

Very proud of her

that's what it's all about, your interactions will shape her opinions and views of many things, make sure you present a beautiful self so that she can continue to become beautiful herself

 

[Y2Dre]

that's what it's all about, your interactions will shape her opinions and views of many things, make sure you present a beautiful self so that she can continue to become beautiful herself

 

[Verbal Kint]

I ain't big on posting my likeness on msg boards and I dont' even have a lot of pics but I'll do anything to promote black fatherhood. I got 6 boys (2 oldest twins are technically wife's brothers but they moved with us at 14)

me and all my boys

even got the white folks happy on a bridge for no reason pic

 

[Michael9100]

American black men are the main reason for why the black family structure as well as the black community as a whole is in such dire traits.Arrested development along with no understanding of personal accountability, and immediate gratification are the reasons for the conditions you see today in the black community.

In actuality,fathers determines the status of the family by his actions which will dictate whether the family experiences the traditional stable home environment or the struggle.

Unlike our forefathers, black American men have become complacent in a white supremacist country simply because the freedoms in this country makes it so that these men can remain in a habitual state of irresponsibility, recklessness,and the I don't give a fukk attitude.

These men do not have the mental capacity to understand that they are in a first-world country where most of the worlds decisions are made which should be a motivation for them to realize that the sky is the limit even though white supremacy it is a huge obstacle.

Meanwhile, Pookie's doing another drive-by down the street killing another black man.

A police officer pulls up, laughs.....than says to his partner" do black lives really matter to these animals or is it a front?"

American black men are a joke to anybody who goes by logic.

We kill one another on a routine basis like a sport in most major cities then suddenly get mad when the police do it.

Respect doesn't work that way dummies.

Either you get respect by force or by loving your own people and self.

But we're talking about American black men who have been colonized.

The key word is colonized.

A colonized peoples brain thinks differently than a person who comes from non colonized status.

Colonize people exhibit certain behavior patterns that white folks have studied for many centuries and black Americans continue to perpetuate these patterns without any desire to counter or change them.

If American black men are being harassed or abused by police then there should be more black lawyers, if black men are being discriminated against in the workforce, then there should be more black business owners.

These are the actions that real men take when they realize the institutional racism in the country they reside in,nonetheless, the black American male will whine, complain and try to show that whites are racist.

The world already knows that dummies.

American black fathers have dropped the ball big time,however, black mothers in America have also picked the worst type of men to reproduce with.This has caused these women to be single mothers in most circumstances.

Indeed,the woman follows the man, but I refuse to believe that the majority of American Blank men are irresponsible deadbeat sociopaths who can just walk out on their children.

I think it's more so that these mothers are picking/sharing irresponsible men to have children with without any concern about the man's character. As a result, these mothers find out after having the kid that the father really never had any intentions of being with her she was just a quickie but decided to have the kid.

Keep in mind the mother pick a sociopathic selfish loser who sang his pants and has really no goals in life.

So the American black communities is fukked up mainly because a good portion of us tried to live out the Hip Hop life that they see on MTV videos without understanding that reality is not the way you can maintain a sustainable future.

There are a number of factors that led to the decline of the black family..... Female mate choice being one of the main problems...

 

[Steve Piffler]

man, this thread.... this is what we need right now. positive vibes

i have 2 boys, one 18 and one 15. the 18 year old has graduated from high school with honors (cum laude), got accepted into Texas State University (his first choice, for the music program) and it currently on tour with Drum Corps International on the snare line. My youngest son is volunteering with me here in the hospital 3 days a week. he wants to be a surgeon, so he is using his summer to work and get some experience working in a hospital. i couldn't be more proud . i learned how to be a great father from my great father. he didn't have a father growing up, so he learned what type of father he wanted to be by watching "leave it to beaver" . he watched how the father treated wally and beaver and he treated us the same. it's funny and sad at the same time. but he turned out to be the best father a kid could ever wish for. i just hope that some day my sons look back on my work as their father favorably.... i truly did my best....

 

[audemarzz]

@Verbal Kint you may have stole the show . . .I don't even no how to properly respond brother . . .beautiful black family

All you great fathers lurking in the cut making changes for the next generation

 

[skeetsinternal]

So many possible abortions

 

[audemarzz]

man, this thread.... this is what we need right now. positive vibes

i have 2 boys, one 18 and one 15. the 18 year old has graduated from high school with honors (cum laude), got accepted into Texas State University (his first choice, for the music program) and it currently on tour with Drum Corps International on the snare line. My youngest son is volunteering with me here in the hospital 3 days a week. he wants to be a surgeon, so he is using his summer to work and get some experience working in a hospital. i couldn't be more proud . i learned how to be a great father from my great father. he didn't have a father growing up, so he learned what type of father he wanted to be by watching "leave it to beaver" . he watched how the father treated wally and beaver and he treated us the same. it's funny and sad at the same time. but he turned out to be the best father a kid could ever wish for. i just hope that some day my sons look back on my work as their father favorably.... i truly did my best....

I sometimes think it's best to go without a manuscript he got to evolve as a person and learn along the way ya'll taught each other things and its showing in your kids as it will show in their kids

 

[twan83]

Father of 4
3 girls and 1 boy

Just left Cali a couple hrs ago took my kids to Disneyland and universal studios

We in Vegas now for a few days

All this for my kids vacation

Love being a father goat experience feeling for me wouldn't trade nothing in the world for it

Just finished baseball end of last month for my 3 kids

Doing tee ball next month for my youngest

Shout and too all the fathers on the coli


We ride for our kids and set great examples for them

 

[director_of_bands]

whats good with that 3rd pic though?

 

[The Don]

Fatherhood has been lovely breh. My oldest is one of the top in her class, my middle child got accepted into a school for gifted children, and my 5 year old is starting to read. They make me prouder each day.

 

[So-Chi]

yo fatherhood is amazing. I'm At the stage now where all they want to do is impress me. Spent 2 weeks showing little man how to ride his bike and he wasn't really TRYING (his fear of falling and embarrassment) but recently I left him riding with his Mom and cam back home from getting dinner and I saw his first ride by himself those moments are crazy humbling. My daughter has just been telling me she loves me and I'm her best friend every day. I have a new position where I'm gone a lot, when she's so used to me being more available and she notices so she misses me. She wakes up like "Morning Daddy, you gotta go to work again today?? " when I say no it's : and ask me to turn on a show for us. They have been having a great summer and I'm planning our first family vacation to a island. Life is GOOD, brehs..