Where did this whole "ignore her and she'll come to you" come from?

[jadillac]

Jadillac Holmes

If you insist, I'll be that....

 

[observe]

Ignoring women doesn't work for many coli posters because women don't care if fakkits are attracted to them or not.

This reply is so underrated

 

[BedRoomI'z]

yall better stop listening to your friends

to a real one this means , outta sight outta mind

 

[Lana Kane]

They ignore real girls and acknowledge Palmela.

 

[yo moms]

If you insist, I'll be that....

 

[AntoineWalkerShimmy]

When we saw it works

Nah but for real, just like it is vice versa for a girl ignoring a guy, sometimes it's just a pursuit game/how much of cat and mouse someone can put up with.

 

[nineteeneightysix]

In my experience,

When a person really likes you, EVERYTHING works...

If you ignore them, they want you more...If you shower them with attention, they love it...So, when you ignore them, they miss you even more...And the cycle continues...

When person really likes you, you can drop a hundred bodies, and they will swear that you were the kindest person in the world...

Anything works, when the chemicals are flowing strong, and altering the way that person's brain functions...

 

[Chrishaune]

Most times the girl will give you a look when she's interested, or do something she thinks is obvious to you. If you don't take the hint, she's gone. Nothing burns like thinking back at lost opportunities.

 

[Mr. Negative]

*looks through thread*

Okay, it's like this:

Let's say a girl's psyche is centered on the attention of men and the gratification of her own ego. Please note that not all women are like this..... 3 out of 10 of even the type you think are.

Lets say she has dudes running up to her day in and day out, simping or whatever.....

if you, even as an only halfway decent looking guy with less going for you...

if you approach her in passing? Speak and keep moving but stay in her peripheral?

You'll stick out to her like a fat african. You'll be the abnormality. Why is this dude not into me?

You'll be on her mind the more you do it. She's looking at you and wondering why you ain't looking at her.

But you gotta know how to move from there because she'll quickly lose interest.








at least that's the thought behind the theory.

 

[Mowgli]

Just about every thread I've read about pulling girls on here and the misc, at least one dude has said this.

"if you want a girl, all you have to do is get her interested in you and just ignore her then she'll be running to you in no time"




Girls have over hundreds of dudes hitting them up daily, why would they come running back to you over the other guys?

From nikkas that bag dimes.

 

[Will Ross]

Because it works

 

[rantanamo]

its not really ignoring. Its more about going about your business.

 

[King Biko]

I wouldn't say ignore a woman but if you let them know you are interested in a real genuine way and then keep it moving she will more than likely fukk with u depending on the situation(she might just want a check or you a ugly ass nikka etc.) but it's not about ignoring them but more so not being thirsty. It lets a chick know that you can pull someone else besides her easily and they would be lucky to be with you. It's really a confidence thing more than anything all you need is good confidence, compliments and conversation and you can pull a quality bytch with ease.

 

[Nasty_Nate]

The theory behind this is that she has thirsty dudes hitting her up all the time. She will focus on the person who's not giving her any attention. Like a comedian. If everyone in the audience is laughing except that one guy your gunna focus on him and ask yourself why can't I get his attention. Again theory is the key word here.

Definitely works with attention whores. Years and years ago my boy had these two bi chicks at his house and they were kissing each other and doing other random sexual shyt. Everybody in there was all up there ass and hyped up except me. Well one of the broads comes over to me and says "What the fukk is up with you?" I told her that shyt doesn't impress me and I'm all about showing and proving and they hadn't showed me shyt with all that teasing. Then I went back to ignoring those sluts. Long story short, at the end of the night your boy Nasty_Nate was in a cheap hotel banging both those broads.

 

[Fatboi1]

Yup. It works.

Just like waiting 3 days after getting her number to call works.























It's a way of saying that having all your eggs in one basket AKA showering her with attention can cause her to lose attraction since she's the only one you're paying attention to.

I sometimes do it to gauge a chicks interest and it works. Hell the other day at work I simply go inside and a chick I think that's feeling me in there said "Hi" to me as soon as I walked in. i said hi back but I was walking so she prolly ain't even hear me. I goes out and come back in and leave again and she's like "Hey how are you doing!?".