Where did the 80/20 rule come from?

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But the same logic still applies to women. As we get older and wider, we relax our standards and open up our dating pool.

But this 80/20 rule definitely doesn't apply to all women. I never even wasted my time on the popular nikkas. Part of it was probably my self esteem. But my mama also told me to find a man that loves me harder then I love him.

Why would I want a nikka with a million hoes, when I can find nikka that's thirsty for me?
Its nature... u are gonna be moved by unseen forces..
Ur saying that u never wasted ur time on the popular dude... but that didnt mean u werent attracted to them... because of maybe ur self esteem, u didnt bother to deal with them, even tho naturally, like the other 80% of women, u would have wanted to be with them..,
If 1 if those attractive jocks would have said the right things, and made u feel comfortable, ud be taken...
and its nothing wrong with that... its just nature.
And to ur last part... about a dude wit a million hoes and the thirsty dude..,
its about hypergamy..,
The dude with a million hoes is above ur level so thats what u really want...
the thirsty dude is probly below ur level, so u would care if he comes or goes... thats why that thirsty shyt is usually a turn off
 

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Bro women are all about feel. If the vibe isn't right she isn't going to fukk.

Yes women want to fukk but a woman can wait longer than a man for some dude that she actually wants. You're trying to think like a man as a woman. They have a lot of options but their brains are wired not to just let anyone smash for the sake of investment in their offspring. A woman needs to know a man is safe and feel comfortable. Why do you think women feel empty and wanna keep talking after a one night stand? Because women get turned on emotionally and physically.

A man doesn't need any of that. All he needs is a body to get his nut. Men are a lot more visual. Hence why erotic novels and porn made for women are romantic and emphasize a fantasy. While the shyt made for men is just a chick gettin pounded like a jack hammer no story necessary.
Not in 2018 :mjlol:

Women won't hesitate to drop a nikka if his penis is small or the sex is whack even though they had been dating for months.

If women are feeling so empty after casual sex like you claim, why are they running thru dudes? You think nikkas on thecoli stand behind #GMB and think women are sexually promiscuous/have high body counts just on the fact that the dude they had sex with smashed and dashed them? You really think that the majority of women's bodies are from guys that hit once and wanted nothing to do with them afterwards? :mjlol: Put young women in big cities with a lot of handsome, young bachelors. See if they gon settle down anytime soon.

How are college girls any different? They are just exposed to more options compared to women who didn't/don't go to college. :rudy:

Alpha Male Strategies says he gets messages from dudes all the time on how a chick ghosted them after sex. Please, stop this bool sheet that women can't have casual sex in 2018 :mjlol: :russ:

And the shyt you say contradicts itself. Can't say men are more visual but then talk about women and erotic novels. Why are those novels so successful? Because women visualize the shyt in they mind!

Can't say a handsome face, height, money and clothes attract women first and foremost but say they ain't visual. People go off by what they see in the first place.

Women ain't seeing busted, homely overweight looking men at first glance and going ooh I wanna talk to him. :comeon:
 
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Where did this idea come from? :patrice: I mean if this were true I doubt I'd be getting p*ssy (I'm definitely not top 20%) And I suspect that for a number of coli brehs it would be the same. Can someone explain how this shyt supposed to work and who came up with it?:skip:
i thought it was about a person will have 80% of what you want and 20% of what you don't.... like a bytch will be bad, cook, clean, take care of the kids, but no job.... or have everything else but she's fat...

so you go and get with a dime piece... that's her 20%... her looks.... but you missing out on the 80% cause you thought the grass was greener


i don't know what that has to do with getting p*ssy... unless you trying to say 20% of men fukk 80% of women.... which doesn't even make any kind of sense logically or statistically
 

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Where did this idea come from? :patrice: I mean if this were true I doubt I'd be getting p*ssy (I'm definitely not top 20%) And I suspect that for a number of coli brehs it would be the same. Can someone explain how this shyt supposed to work and who came up with it?:skip:
Insecurities by brehs who believe in bro science :yeshrug:
 

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Not in 2018 :mjlol:

Women won't hesitate to drop a nikka if his penis is small or the sex is whack even though they had been dating for months.

If women are feeling so empty after casual sex like you claim, why are they running thru dudes? You think nikkas on thecoli stand behind #GMB and think women are sexually promiscuous/have high body counts just on the fact that the dude they had sex with smashed and dashed them? You really think that the majority of women's bodies are from guys that hit once and wanted nothing to do with them afterwards? :mjlol: Put young women in big cities with a lot of handsome, young bachelors. See if they gon settle down anytime soon.

How are college girls any different? They are just exposed to more options compared to women who didn't/don't go to college. :rudy:

Alpha Male Strategies says he gets messages from dudes all the time on how a chick ghosted them after sex. Please, stop this bool sheet that women can't have casual sex in 2018 :mjlol: :russ:
agreed... and i grew up in the blackplanet, aol era.... i seen numerous chicks ready to throw the p*ssy over looks.... and still that is NOTHING compared to today.. all the freak groups on facebook... twitter after dark... regular ass women, half naked, busting it open for IG... do we even need to bring up tinder, bumble, cupid, etc dating (fukking) apps..... these women horny as fukk.. throw up a few likes and loves, tell her how bad she is and how bad you want her, and most these hoes can be had for a blunt and some liquor..

and they ain't asking to be with you.... they don't ask about your kids or girl... they don't care... they want that dikk, a good night, and off to fukk the next nikka... she might fukk you ALSO, but she definitely about going to fukk some more nikkas after 1 good date
 

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agreed... and i grew up in the blackplanet, aol era.... i seen numerous chicks ready to throw the p*ssy over looks.... and still that is NOTHING compared to today.. all the freak groups on facebook... twitter after dark... regular ass women, half naked, busting it open for IG... do we even need to bring up tinder, bumble, cupid, etc dating (fukking) apps..... these women horny as fukk.. throw up a few likes and loves, tell her how bad she is and how bad you want her, and most these hoes can be had for a blunt and some liquor..

and they ain't asking to be with you.... they don't ask about your kids or girl... they don't care... they want that dikk, a good night, and off to fukk the next nikka... she might fukk you ALSO, but she definitely about going to fukk some more nikkas after 1 good date
Right? These nikkas is delusional saying women aren't visual :mjlol:

That shyt has been debunked time and time again.

On dating apps like Tinder, them chicks looking at ya height, face and body.

Dudes ran experiments with model dudes on apps like Tinder and they were able to get away with saying all types of disrespectful shyt to women because they looked good.
 

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the so called 80/20 rule was invented by my college roommate Big Gerald [redacted]
He was a 6'5” 300 lb electrical engineering major from grand prairie, tx who had played the tuba in high school
His breathing was audible 90% of the time.. I never asked if he was good at tuba??:troll:
Anyway.. He didn't have much luck with the ladies:mjlol:

He would go to the 24 hour library whenever I needed some privacy
But later he would want to hear a perv summary :francis:
And he was fixated on asking ..
if she had cum, how I knew , and how to tell if she enjoyed it, etc

His hypothesis was that 80% of the ladies got sprung by the same 20% of guys
That those ladies would always fantasize and romantisize those past interactions
And a minimum standard was formed based on those highlights
And the other 80% of men like himself could never measure up

So yes,, most men will get women and have sex over their life
But it will be "hand me down p*ssy " (his phrase)

He felt that men in his position had to be patient
Ger felt woman would gravitate towards him eventually (and he would make a gravity joke :francis:)
But it took longer for people like him to become men and develop as human beings

And big ger did get himself together.. after a few years of being an engineer and having responsibilities,, he matured
He would be taken sersously etc

And he did marry and start a family
But inside he still believed his theory

Rip big ger :mjcry:

As a footnote, my own theory -- that couplings (hookups) are catalyzed by certain ratios of men to women
And there exists an ideal ratio for any given environment
Has been totally forgotten and lost to time :shaq2:
Yet ger's theory continues to gain traction:aicmon:
 
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studies of dating habits as poled on dating sites and apps... brehs already knew these truths though but they basically revealed that most all women no matter their looks or background were going after the same type of men in the 20 percentile. Ain't brehs ever wondered how they can work their asses of to be providers and lock down good women when some ain't shyt nikka can just come and take their bytch off his sex appeal with nothing esle to offer... no job, no stability :laff:

We tend to try and downplay our primal urges when we paint our modern human images. Act as if coupling is based on a true science when it is still widely affected by instinct. since the dawn of man women been fukking one type of man and co-habiting with another kind. It doesn't mean that all men can't eat or your fukked if you outside the 20% who fall into attracting the 80% you just have slimmer odds and less hook up activity.

As a man look for interest from the woman you seek as well... mutual attraction. Don't do one sided chasing you are setting yourself up for an L.

women really do be flocking to the main rooster we ain't all that different from our animal brethren. It's in our DNA.


Truth.

When it comes to casual fukkin, men cast a wide net. We might PREFER the chocolate sista with the smooth skin and onion booty, but if the big titty white girl with pancake booty but a cute smile is on the table.....we WILL sample the goods.

Women are much stricter with casual sex. Their mindset (subconsciously) is "if I get knocked up accidentally by super sexy alpha dude, I'll live with it because he's fine and will pass good genes." Regular dudes have to provide value over looks. That's why so many dudes are checking out of the game. They wanna fukk around too. Women and top 20% brehs can get what they want whenever. Regular dudes ain't committing until they get their fill too.
 

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I think it came from someone who was gardening who figured out that 80% of his crop came from only 20% of the seeds he planted.

The idea is that 80% of results will come from 20% of your concentrated effort.

Eg: if you run a business, you could have 10 clients. But if you really look at the numbers you could notice that 80% of your profit comes from only 2-3 clients.

Instead of wasting time on the other 7-8 ones, it is better to find more clients like those 2-3 (this example is used in the book the 4-Hour Work Week)

I do not know what you mean about women, but 80% of the good stuff will come out of only 20% of your effort - which is also why doing too much turns women off.

Ding Ding.

They're called "whales". Clients or customers that drive the vast majority of your revenue. So you try and capture little bits from the other 80% but you only really concentrate on the 20% that actually spend real money.
 

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80/20 rule also applies to men, idk why it's painted like it's not. Only difference is men come to conclusion they won't survive/get what they want faster than woman being the one's dealing with rejection more often

Men are more realistic, most men would fukk most women out here & wife any woman with decent wifeable qualities.

Most women want a top tier 20% dude, 6 feet, 6 figure earning, bad boy type etc. But most men are average height, earn an average salary & live an average life. Women tend to settle for the average guy once they past their prime & can't get that dream man, the 20% dude every woman wants.
 

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i thought it was about a person will have 80% of what you want and 20% of what you don't.... like a bytch will be bad, cook, clean, take care of the kids, but no job.... or have everything else but she's fat...

so you go and get with a dime piece... that's her 20%... her looks.... but you missing out on the 80% cause you thought the grass was greener


i don't know what that has to do with getting p*ssy... unless you trying to say 20% of men fukk 80% of women.... which doesn't even make any kind of sense logically or statistically

Pretty much that's what the 80/20 meant. I'm reading this thread completely confused...
 

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Exactly that feel sorry for me shyt does not work for man. The sooner you understand that, eating well with women is easy even if the guy isn't all that

Also many men will stick around some of those "80%" of women who might "deal" or "tolerant" him but ultimately doesn't see him has desirable or what she really wanted. The worse form of settling guys do.

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the so called 80/20 rule was invented by my college roommate Big Gerald [redacted]
He was a 6'5” 300 lb electrical engineering major from grand prairie, tx who had played the tuba in high school
His breathing was audible 90% of the time.. I never asked if he was good at tuba??:troll:
Anyway.. He didn't have much luck with the ladies:mjlol:

He would go to the 24 hour library whenever I needed some privacy
But later he would want to hear a perv summary :francis:
And he was fixated on asking ..
if she had cum, how I knew , and how to tell if she enjoyed it, etc

His hypothesis was that 80% of the ladies got sprung by the same 20% of guys
That those ladies would always fantasize and romantisize those past interactions
And a minimum standard was formed based on those highlights
And the other 80% of men like himself could never measure up

So yes,, most men will get women and have sex over their life
But it will be "hand me down p*ssy " (his phrase)

He felt that men in his position had to be patient
Ger felt woman would gravitate towards him eventually (and he would make a gravity joke :francis:)
But it took longer for people like him to become men and develop as human beings

And big ger did get himself together.. after a few years of being an engineer and having responsibilities,, he matured
He would be taken sersously etc

And he did marry and start a family
But inside he still believed his theory

Rip big ger :mjcry:

As a footnote, my own theory -- that couplings (hookups) are catalyzed by certain ratios of men to women
And there exists an ideal ratio for any given environment
Has been totally forgotten and lost to time :shaq2:
Yet ger's theory continues to gain traction:aicmon:



This makes sense. I guess he saying the 20 percent got her in prime 80 percent had to wait till she out of prime


Its the game tho u got to get in where u fit in
 
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