Its nature... u are gonna be moved by unseen forces..But the same logic still applies to women. As we get older and wider, we relax our standards and open up our dating pool.
But this 80/20 rule definitely doesn't apply to all women. I never even wasted my time on the popular nikkas. Part of it was probably my self esteem. But my mama also told me to find a man that loves me harder then I love him.
Why would I want a nikka with a million hoes, when I can find nikka that's thirsty for me?
Ur saying that u never wasted ur time on the popular dude... but that didnt mean u werent attracted to them... because of maybe ur self esteem, u didnt bother to deal with them, even tho naturally, like the other 80% of women, u would have wanted to be with them..,
If 1 if those attractive jocks would have said the right things, and made u feel comfortable, ud be taken...
and its nothing wrong with that... its just nature.
And to ur last part... about a dude wit a million hoes and the thirsty dude..,
its about hypergamy..,
The dude with a million hoes is above ur level so thats what u really want...
the thirsty dude is probly below ur level, so u would care if he comes or goes... thats why that thirsty shyt is usually a turn off