i wish i could dap you 20x for this,
your job as a man is to teach women, the only bytches who say that bad boy shyt are the women who had boyfriends who aint teach them shyt about relationships and the male perspective
The effect of a man on a woman is huge. I work with this chick at Rona, we been flirtling on and off during weekend shifts for about 3 weeks now. She is about 18-19. Good girl. Only having sex with men who are serious about a relationship like she is. Last Saturday she went on a date with some white guy, 25. Said he was mature because of all the stuff he's been through. She told him before hand that nothing sexual would happen, but on the date he's making moves on her.
I told her that he's still immature, he should have been able to keep it in his pants.
She now considers him a friend after that date. She goes on to say he's about my height but standing next to me is 'different' than standing next to him. And that she wishes she could find a black man like me, who doesn't speak slang like its a foreign language. We both agreed men of my caliber are a rare breed.
You set the standards for a woman's expectations of men with your behaviour. Whether its a sexual, work place, or platonic relationship. Most the time these broads are too hypnotized by a screen to recognize a real man standing in front of them in the flesh.