When I was in high school, most of the bad bxtches was dating grown ass men

[mbewane]

When I was growing up the whole propaganda was that "girls are sooooooooooooooo much more mature than boys" and that's why they didn't fukk with us of the same age so logically they did what they had to do to get older brehs

 

[Gloxina]

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I don't think they had a positive home cause some of these women super beautiful and out here doing the same thing but just advanced version cause they learnt to use their looks to their benefit.

And it's like whoever came across them at that age wasn't willing to wait.

There's a sad mix of they had vulnerability then and them realizing they could get a lot of free shyt if they went along with it and that was a good enough trade off for them.

But me and my friends male and female say if only they realized their value

And that is the point.

They didn’t know their value because no one taught them.


That is the point.


These girls get used and abused because when they are young and at their prettiest, no one in the family told them what the world wanted from them. THAT IS IT.

 

[Ku$h Parker]

When you give young people knowledge they can use it to override their hormones or at least make decisions in the moment that will protect their future.

Mom giving me "The Talk" at 14 has kept me out of The Schoolyard Fukkeries,Just crazy that it all changes from The 'Fun' Times in Elementary School

Edit:I mean to go from Jungle Gyms and Sand to just Basketball Hoops and Big Grassy Field to just Massive Buildings is pretty Hard Hitting to say the least

 

[Still Benefited]

You’re excusing stuff. They know better.

Would you say the same if a 17 year old was fukking a 12 year old?

You’re letting these girls off the hook because of “hormones” as if the 20 year olds fukking these girls also don’t have hormones.

I remember I would go to church retreats and everybody sneaking around and fukking.

Hormones ain’t a good excuse for shyt.

I agree,but I think its a mixed bag. She said parents need to teach the girls because if not

"it’s obvious that a girl is going to fall for someone who has more game/experience."


But while many young girls are naive and taken advantage of by older men being manipulative,Alot of young girls back in my day were the ones with the game and the experience. Some of them bragged about how they had the older dude tricking,and having his apartment key. People always assume the older man is on some smooth Fabio shyt. But some of them older dudes was only getting used for their resources. And we know some werent told the real age going in. Those girls saw them as easy marks.


Now of course you can call the girl a victim for maybe seeing and hearing too much at a young age. Maybe having too much experience for whatever reason(casual teen sex,or molestation).


Just like if a juvenile commits a crime. We should take into considerstion their age,and judge them accordingly or not at all. But doesnt change the fact you killed and knew exactly what you were doing.


So i see certain underage girls as victims when they were manipulated or maybe felt pressured by an authority figure. But we need a word other than "victim" for those girls who knew exactly what they were doing,wanted an older guy,and in some cases were using and victimizing the older men.


Its like putting women who were raped and women who were "coerced" in the same category. No,that man said you had to call an Uber to take you home if you didnt wanna smash,so you obliged. That is not in the same atmosphere as a an actual victim being forcibly raped.

 

[Gloxina]

I agree,but I think its a mixed bag. She said parents need to teach the girls because if not

"it’s obvious that a girl is going to fall for someone who has more game/experience."


But while many young girls are naive and taken advantage of by older men being manipulative,Alot of young girls back in my day were the ones with the game and the experience. Some of them bragged about how they had the older dude tricking,and having his apartment key. People always assume the older man is on some smooth Fabio shyt. But some of them older dudes was only getting used for their resources. And we know some werent told the real age going in. Those girls saw them as easy marks.


Now of course you can call the girl a victim for maybe seeing and hearing too much at a young age. Maybe having too much experience for whatever reason(casual teen sex,or molestation).


Just like if a juvenile commits a crime. We should take into considerstion their age,and judge them accordingly or not at all. But doesnt change the fact you killed and knew exactly what you were doing.


So i see certain underage girls as victims when they were manipulated or maybe felt pressured by an authority figure. But we need a word other than "victim" for those girls who knew exactly what they were doing,wanted an older guy,and in some cases were using and victimizing the older men.

An older man trading some trinkets or money to access a younger woman’s body is not being victimized.

That being said- what is being overlooked is a young underaged girl who is purposely seeking an older man for resources didn’t get those ideas in her head organically.
That is a young girl who was already being touched by another grown man. Young girls end up being “fast” because some man has already been doing stuff to her at a young age.

 

[Donny]

Not in my school but a girl in my neighborhood was having sex with one of the married men in the neighborhood and she couldn’t have been older than 15/16 I remember how everybody was calling her fast or loose or whatever in retrospect it’s so fukked up she received so much criticism for being taken advantage of by a grown ass man

 

[Serious]

When I was growing up the whole propaganda was that "girls are sooooooooooooooo much more mature than boys" and that's why they didn't fukk with us of the same age so logically they did what they had to do to get older brehs

Yeah sure in some ways.

But not mature enough to mess with a guy that’s a grown man.

There’s literally no excuse someone could make regarding why a man older than 24, is messing with a woman younger than 18.

I mean even though it’s legal, I side eye cats that are in their late 20’s with a chick under 21.

There’s literally nothing I can relate to an 18 year old with. Outside of sex.

And sex isn’t important enough to deal with an immature chick

 

[Serious]

I agree,but I think its a mixed bag. She said parents need to teach the girls because if not

"it’s obvious that a girl is going to fall for someone who has more game/experience."


But while many young girls are naive and taken advantage of by older men being manipulative,Alot of young girls back in my day were the ones with the game and the experience. Some of them bragged about how they had the older dude tricking,and having his apartment key. People always assume the older man is on some smooth Fabio shyt. But some of them older dudes was only getting used for their resources. And we know some werent told the real age going in. Those girls saw them as easy marks.


Now of course you can call the girl a victim for maybe seeing and hearing too much at a young age. Maybe having too much experience for whatever reason(casual teen sex,or molestation).


Just like if a juvenile commits a crime. We should take into considerstion their age,and judge them accordingly or not at all. But doesnt change the fact you killed and knew exactly what you were doing.


So i see certain underage girls as victims when they were manipulated or maybe felt pressured by an authority figure. But we need a word other than "victim" for those girls who knew exactly what they were doing,wanted an older guy,and in some cases were using and victimizing the older men.


It’s like putting women who were raped and women who were "coerced" in the same category. No,that man said you had to call an Uber to take you home if you didnt wanna smash,so you obliged. That is not in the same atmosphere as a an actual victim being forcibly raped.

Sounds like these women were previously groomed.

So it’s too late. Just because they’re taking advantage of a dude currently doesn’t detract from the fact they were probably groomed before. The older guy cashing out, is still in the wrong. Him financing her life, doesn’t take away from the fact they’re dealing with a chick they shouldn’t be dealing with

Think about what you just said, do you believe young women just come out the womb with enough game to “manipulate” a man, or is it better to suspect that she was previously groomed, preyed upon, manipulated or influenced by someone or something else.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

Yeah, you were getting on the Cheese Box and they were getting picked up in a GS430 with rims.

 

[Gloxina]

Sounds like these women were previously groomed.

So it’s too late. Just because they’re taking advantage of a dude currently doesn’t detract from the fact they were probably groomed before. The older guy cashing out, is still in the wrong. Him financing her life, doesn’t take away from the fact they’re dealing with a chick they shouldn’t be dealing with

Think about what you just said, do you believe young women just come out the womb with enough game to “manipulate” a man, or is it better to suspect that she was previously groomed, preyed upon, manipulated or influenced by someone or something else.

I really, really appreciate the men who get it.

 

[Serious]

Yeah, you were getting on the Cheese Box and they were getting picked up in a GS430 with rims.

Wild concept I could never phantom as I got older.

 

[NinoBrown]

Point blank those women were being preyed upon.

A young girl in high school being fast with 25 year old is manipulation.

The game is the game and wolves need sheep to eat, the strong sheep survive another day.

Then when I got to college, the 18 year olds were getting trains ran on them by frat boys or older..

Hate to say it, but the reality is women go for the breh with more resources, money, cars, job, etc...

All in the game...

 

[mbewane]

Yeah sure in some ways.

But mature enough to mess with a guy that’s a grown man.

There’s literally no excuse someone could make regarding why a man older than 24, is messing with a woman younger than 18.

I mean even though it’s legal, I side eye cats that are in their late 20’s with a chick under 21.

There’s literally nothing I can relate to an 18 year old with. Outside of sex.

And sex isn’t important enough to deal with an immature chick

Well people can't be like "girls are sooooooooo much mature" than boys their ages and then act surprised when they choose to go out with men older than them because they consider boys their age to be "kids". They believe in their own propaganda, if you're so grown-up then go play with the grown-ups, but don't come complaining about it later

Me personally the biggest age gap I've had must've been like 2 or 3 years when I was already 26/27 and the girl was younger. But I had a short lived relationship with a chick who was 7 years older than I was, and I was just 20. I can chill and whatnot with much younger people (men and women) because some are in the same stuff I'm interested in, but at some point the lack of common cultural references and different styles of life will show. More probable that I'll see them more less like nephews or nieces.

 

[ReturnOfJudah]

 

[Ku$h Parker]

Yeah, you were getting on the Cheese Box and they were getting picked up in a GS430 with rims.

I got picked up by Moms or Walked Solo/wit a Crew