When I was in high school, most of the bad bxtches was dating grown ass men

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Latinas love older men more than pawgs or black Women do. All this ‘’you’re a creep if you’re 35 and dating a 22 year old women’’ shyt doesn’t fly with them. They’re more traditional in general, they prefer macho hard on hoes type dudes instead of shea butter/feminist type dudes, they want a family as soon as possible, they will date any Latino guy with a job, they want to get pregnant earlier etc
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This gorgeous Spanish girl in HS really had me wondering what her type was. Every dude wanted her but she wouldn’t even look their way. So I had to come correct to get close with her. My heart sunk when she finally confessed the type of man she was already dating.

Dude was not a looker but worked for Verizon. He paid her family’s cable and utility bills, he would drop off and pick up her little brother at pre-k school, he gave her some shopping money and would take her out on weekends.

All I had was an unlimited school metrocard and some allowance money. Smh lol
 

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i went to school in utah which is like..... the least poverty state. all the stuff people are giving as a reason for young girls to date older men wasn't really applicable. the kids had cars and money, the athletes were going d1, dads are involved, etc. so the were plenty of options in school for the "baddies".... plus half the kids are mormon lol.

anybody on some the inappropriate ratchetness probably didn't even make it to upperclass to even attend prom.
Yea, socioeconomics play a big part in this. My college boyfriends came from money, had sports cars at 18 (and in HS), etc. There was no reason to think about older men when guys my age had money from their families to properly court.

But again, I watched the guys in my family do the same stuff when they were in college- they treated their girlfriends well so I didn’t think I needed an older guy to do those things.
 

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In retrospect, all those 19-27 year olds were not shamed enough for picking up high school kids, they couldn’t get college aged girls because they were weirdos
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I don’t doubt it…it happens in the hood too…mothers will give their daughters up for men with money…just had a friend tell me the shyt her mom put her thru growing up smmfh…another story…my cousin had some real money coming in when he was in his late teens…was driving a $50k car at 19…I was a couple years older at the time…one day we driving around and a van starts following us…we try to lose it but couldn’t shake it…so he stopped abruptly and we both hopped out…come to find out it was a woman driving the van…she saw him in the car and wanted to introduce her daughter to him…daughter was in the van….16 years old…and the mother was ready to push her off on a stranger just bcuz he had a nice car…bizarre shyt smh
I saw some trash ass moms prostituting their children too when I used to work in the school system.
Yep. MANY people look at young girls as something to be bartered. All to have access to a man’s resources. This is where girls learn to have transactional relationships and literally see their bodies and pretty faces as tools to get things from men before their looks fall off. Trifling mothers teach this, and the world will teach this if you don’t control your child’s environments and influences.

This is insane. We would probably see more of this type of stuff currently if not for smartphones and social media.
 

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I never saw this. If it did happen, it was none of my business. I'm not going pretend like 16, 17, and 18 yr olds are gullible dumb beings who don't know what's going on.
 

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My sister told me my niece (16) was pulled over in a car with an 18 yr old that goes to her school and a 24 yr old. She said the cops didn't even do anything since they have no proof of 'relations'

She got both of their address and gave them to her baby daddy. Not sure what happened after that :manny:
 

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My sister told me my niece (16) was pulled over in a car with an 18 yr old that goes to her school and a 24 yr old. She said the cops didn't even do anything since they have no proof of 'relations'

She got both of their address and gave them to her baby daddy. Not sure what happened after that :manny:

Grown men who chase young girls in 2024 are even more trifling given teens today look much younger than they did in the 80s and 90s.
 

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I hope and pray I don’t have a daughter :scust:
You know, my aunt and I had a talk recently. They only had sons.

She’s a retired RN and she said that the number of little girls (8, 10, 13, 14, etc) who were admitted to the hospital for “depression and pregnancy” was so alarming that she told her fellow nurses that she never wanted to have daughters. And because she had sons they said “well you know, you have sons. It’s the men who are doing this to the little girls in their homes”. My aunt said she told them “Well I just have to pray that my husband and I train them the right way so that they never do these things to someone’s daughter”.

Little girls raped by dads, stepdads, uncles, etc.

If you are in healthcare you know this shyt has always been a problem and sadly, always will be.

That’s why I talk like I do on here. 🤷🏾‍♀️
 
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