What's your racial preference?

[GiGi]

Then why is it that on dating sites there are black women who put "no black men" on their profile.

House negroes are house negroes which include both black women and black men that put men and women of other races above our own

Gigi just looks like she went with a non black man and wants other black women to do the same and is trying to get them to do so by spreading anti-black men propoganda.

This is the exception not the rule. Most black American women prefer/only date black men.

I am NOT advising ALL or even most black women to stop dating black men. That's ridiculous. But I will briefly explain my stance....

I am speaking from the point of view of a black American woman. Many (not all) but many black men do not view brown skinned or dark skinned black women as acceptable mates and will opt for lighter skinned black women, mixed race women, Latina, Asian or white women as their only desirable partners. There is an entire population of black women who resort to sharing a man, settling for unstable men, becoming single mothers, lesbianism, become married to the church, etc. I don't think that black men are asking black women for our blind allegiance but we offer it anyway...to our own detriment. And in the process, black women become even MORE undesirable to many black men. If your own men don't view you as the epitome of beauty and desirability then that's a major problem. Why can we not see this?

In my opinion, many of us as black women should stop the eternal pity party and make ourselves more marketable to ALL men. Exercise, eat healthy foods, lose weight, stop having babies out of wedlock, etc. We should also stop turning down "Todd" who works in accounting because we are waiting for "Tyrone" who is too busy checking out "Becky/AnaMaria/Soon Yi" to even notice. This is not about bashing black men but about helping black women with our overall PR/image problem. And regardless of whether or not we want to admit it, we do have an image problem.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

Then why is it that on dating sites there are black women who put "no black men" on their profile.

House negroes are house negroes which include both black women and black men that put men and women of other races above our own

Gigi just looks like she went with a non black man and wants other black women to do the same and is trying to get them to do so by spreading anti-black men propoganda.

They are the bare minimum.For the most part, black women want "black love."This "black love," has always been one-sided to me.

 

[Blackout]

This is the exception not the rule. Most black American women prefer/only date black men.

I am NOT advising ALL or even most black women to stop dating black men. That's ridiculous. But I will briefly explain my stance....

I am speaking from the point of view of a black American woman. Many (not all) but many black men do not view brown skinned or dark skinned black women as acceptable mates and will opt for lighter skinned black women, mixed race women, Latina, Asian or white women as their only desirable partners. There is an entire population of black women who resort to sharing a man, settling for unstable men, becoming single mothers, lesbianism, become married to the church, etc. I don't think that black men are asking black women for our blind allegiance but we offer it anyway...to our own detriment. And in the process, black women become even MORE undesirable to many black men. If your own men don't view you as the epitome of beauty and desirability then that's a major problem. Why can we not see this?

In my opinion, many of us as black women should stop the eternal pity party and make ourselves more marketable to ALL men. Exercise, eat healthy foods, lose weight, stop having babies out of wedlock, etc. We should also stop turning down "Todd" who works in accounting because we are waiting for "Tyrone" who is too busy checking out "Becky/AnaMaria/Soon Yi" to even notice. This is not about bashing black men but about helping black women with our overall PR/image problem. And regardless of whether or not we want to admit it, we do have an image problem.

There are many black Todd's tho lol.

All of your talk focus on this Tyrone who wants white women. The issue is that your too obsessed with these house negro men who only want white women. It most likely the reason you dated out is because you didn't notice Black Todd because he was too nerdy or too shy lol.

 

[GiGi]

It's obvious that you are not familiar with online dating because they are. I've seen it many times lol.

I have never done online dating so I can not comment definitively about profile content but the idea of "black love" reigns supreme for most black American women. The fairytale of the beautiful chocolate Morris Chestnut prince is the standard. But the problem is that the fantasy girl for many black men is anything but a black woman; he wants Snow White, Mulan or Pochohantas.

 

[Blackout]

I never done online dating so I can not comment definitively about profile content but the idea of "black love" reigns supreme for most black American women. The fairytale of the beautiful chocolate Morris Chestnut prince is the standard. But the problem is that the fantasy girl for many black men is anything but a black woman; he wants Snow White, Mulan or Pochohantas.

See you tell me this yet on those sites I still see some black women saying "no black men" on their profile.

I see house negros on both sides miss.

 

[Blackout]

They are the bare minimum.For the most part, black women want "black love."This "black love," has always been one-sided to me.

Dude I can go on those sites and see black women doing that right now. It's rising in number lol.

 

[GiGi]

There are many black Todd's tho lol.

All of your talk focus on this Tyrone who wants white women. The issue is that your too obsessed with these house negro men who only want white women. It most likely the reason you dated out becsue you didn't notice Black Todd because he was too nerdy or too shy lol.

Yes, this is true. We need MORE black Todd's and fewer Tyrone's.

And we need black Todd to start approaching the women with whom he has an interest because shy white Todd in accounting is getting bolder by the day.

 

[MostReal]

black

but...hasn't this thread been made before

 

[Ooh Marty]

pink cuz what p*ssy aint pink

How abt purple?

 

[CinnaSlim]

I hope some people are actually watching the video. The point was to discuss the vid but I'm sure tons of people are just looking at the title. I'll do better next time lol.

 

[Remote]

I hope some people are actually watching the video. The point was to discuss the vid but I'm sure tons of people are just looking at the title. I'll do better next time lol.

I actually was going to watch the video based on your post.
Then 2 seconds into it, I saw "Buzzfeed presents..."

 

[Kasual Konfidence]

How abt purple?

whoa

what you been fukkin G?

 

[Goddess_Godiva]

I have a racial preference but who gives a shyt

 

[flo]

I have never done online dating so I can not comment definitively about profile content but the idea of "black love" reigns supreme for most black American women. The fairytale of the beautiful chocolate Morris Chestnut prince is the standard. But the problem is that the fantasy girl for many black men is anything but a black woman; he wants Snow White, Mulan or Pochohantas.

Lol that's not true. Black women and mixed black women are still on the top of the list.

 

[Blackout]

Yes, this is true. We need MORE black Todd's and fewer Tyrone's.

And we need black Todd to start approaching the women with whom he has an interest because shy white Todd in accounting is getting bolder by the day.

Those beckys are aggressive as well