What's your racial preference?

[CinnaSlim]

Damn. So where was your father in all of this? It seems if they would've had a strong black male presence in their lives things could've been different, or did he even try to instill pride? It's weird because I live in a city where it's 90% white and I also never had a strong male role model but I've never trashed black women or ever preferred them over my own. Black women were always my #1. Only in high school was where I had no problem liking all races of women, but as I soon as left it changed dramatically. No other races of women except black do anything for me now.

I agree. I had my mother to look up to. She was confident and comfortable in her skin and through her I learned to be the same.

We have different fathers. My oldest brother only began a relationship with his father near the end of or after highschool. My other brother hasnt met his father and isnt interested in finding more about him. My father was around. He and my mother divorced when I was really young but he still tried to have a relationship with all of us. However, he was in the military and moved around a lot.

The only two men in our family that they were around were my grandfather, who is my mother's step-father. He is a dark-skinned spanish speaking Panamanian with like grey eyes, so his experience is a little different than my brothers. He came to America as an adult. The other man would be my uncle but he had his own family and moved around and eventually settled in North Carolina. His son is also more comfortable around whites and upper middle class folk. Then there is my cousin who is around my age. He plays lacrosse and soccer.

So there's been a rejection of being "hood" and "ghetto" and although that doesnt emcompass all it is to be black. I cant help but feel like it is a rejection of blackness. They open themselves to other races and cultures which is fine but at the end of the day, I would be surprised to see any of them settling with a black woman.

 

[Fat Kevin]

Yes they are pretty and look closer to Blacks here in the US. If I went with an African man it would have to be from western or southern Africa. I see Ethiopians and the men remind me of those old Indian guys that run the 7-11s, and I don't like the bulging eyes and big heads that just about all of them have. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder I guess.

The horners look like Arabs with dark skin to me, rather than black Americans

 

[MF_BREW]

All types of women, if she a pretty motherfukka.

 

[Tommy Knocks]

do you spend a lot of time in East Asia? how do the paags treat you?

I live here. lol.

They treat me aite. I think they're a little off the wall, but its just cultural differences. Koreans, Filipinas and Japanese are a bit closer to western style, while chinese are alien and thais are VERY liberal.

There's 2 kinds of mongolian features. 1 I call the cabbage patch, they tend to be the more innocent looking ones, very big and high cheeks, deep dimples and soft eyes.

Then you got the ones I like....I call them the warriors. They have fierce eyes, look like they'll stab you in your sleep if you cheat, they tend to have a lot of fire like latinas, but I can't help but like it

Mongolians also have thick lips.


paagin :noah2:

 

[Tommy Knocks]

The horners look like Arabs with dark skin to me, rather than black Americans

arabs get their features from horners. horners came first.

 

[OatmealCreamPie]

The horners look like Arabs with dark skin to me, rather than black Americans

Yeah that's probably why I can't really relate to them. I don't like Arab men one bit (in a sexual way)so that would explain my aversion to anyone who looks like them.

 

[GiGi]

And where are YOU running to? 80% of black men and women get married to each other. You on the other hand, are 30+ and don't have a ring from any creed or nationality of man. In fact, clearly men are sailing that ship away from your direction, so you should be the last woman on this board preaching about seeking greener pastures when your issue lies in being undesirable yourself.

You have no idea of my age or my relationship status.

It is exactly this type of blind hatred towards black women that exposes the true nature of men like yourself.

 

[OatmealCreamPie]

I agree. I had my mother to look up to. She was confident and comfortable in her skin and through her I learned to be the same.

We have different fathers. My oldest brother only began a relationship with his father near the end of or after highschool. My other brother hasnt met his father and isnt interested in finding more about him. My father was around. He and my mother divorced when I was really young but he still tried to have a relationship with all of us. However, he was in the military and moved around a lot.

The only two men in our family that they were around were my grandfather, who is my mother's step-father. He is a dark-skinned spanish speaking Panamanian with like grey eyes, so his experience is a little different than my brothers. He came to America as an adult. The other man would be my uncle but he had his own family and moved around and eventually settled in North Carolina. His son is also more comfortable around whites and upper middle class folk. Then there is my cousin who is around my age. He plays lacrosse and soccer.

So there's been a rejection of being "hood" and "ghetto" and although that doesnt emcompass all it is to be black. I cant help but feel like it is a rejection of blackness. They open themselves to other races and cultures which is fine but at the end of the day, I would be surprised to see any of them settling with a black woman.

The running theme here is no STEADY strong Black male presence that are actively involved in the day to day rearing of the children. I think this is why so many Black men and women are so infatuated with other races over their own. You need to have that strong family support to mold Black children into proud Black adults in a world that shyts on Black people. That's why it really doesn't bother me when I see the deep infatuation on here or out in the physical world because I know that they most likely come from shaky family backgrounds.

 

[Bobby Reds]

ALL KINDS

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

Cool. But I'm not trying to say every black man is on this kick. That wouldn't be fair to say. I'm saying that more black men than any other race venture outside of their race. Yea white men love Asians but that's it. I'm not trying to argue cause no matter what is said my opinion won't change. I've seen since I was a young teen how black men put other races of women on a pedestal. and please know I'm not saying all black men.

stop saying that horse shyt its legit getting me mad

 

[Killer Instinct]

You have no idea of my age or my relationship status.

It is exactly this type of blind hatred towards black women that exposes the true nature of men like yourself.

Slaying Bed Bucks™ since 1981

Wench, please.

Your only purpose is to log on here it log on here and antagonize black men as a whole and your straw-man arguments won't work on anyone with half a brain. The only reference of black women I made in my post was that 80% of black men are married to black women. YOU don't represent the average black woman outside of the web nor on this website, so no, my statement had zero implications concerning black women and everything to do with YOUR tap dancing ass. You're undesirable and miserable and the harsh reality is no man of any creed is tripping over himself to be with you, which is why you're a regular in these threads. Get mad about it, but you're still waking up alone tomorrow.

 

[KinksandCoils]

stop saying that horse shyt its legit getting me mad

Ive stopped discussing this subject about a few hrs ago

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

Ive stopped discussing this subject about a few hrs ago

i dont care you said that shyt twice in the thread and im double checking you

 

[GiGi]

The running theme here is no STEADY strong Black male presence that are actively involved in the day to day rearing of the children. I think this is why so many Black men and women are so infatuated with other races over their own. You need to have that strong family support to mold Black children into proud Black adults in a world that shyts on Black people. That's why it really doesn't bother me when I see the deep infatuation on here or out in the physical world because I know that they most likely come from shaky family backgrounds.

Sorry to punch a bit of whole in your theory (although I don't completely disagree you in some aspects) but I come from a solidly middle class, 2 black parent home. Both parents are college educated, extremely knowledgeable about black history and they have been married for a thousand years. But my parents always had a very diverse circle of friends and I was exposed to many different races, ethnicities, cultures and religions from a very young age. Being open to loving a man f a different race does not mean that I don't love myself. My father would prefer that I have a man in my life who loves and cherishes me regardless of race.

 

[KinksandCoils]

i dont care you said that shyt twice in the thread and im double checking you

U said stop talking about it. And I just said I did. And u still whining like a lil bytch.

Be gone