What's the biggest lesson you've taken away from a relationship?

[Remote]

What's the biggest lesson you've taken away from a relationship?

For me, it's probably that not every battle needs to be fought.
Not to say that you suppress your feelings or anything like that. Just that there's a time and place and sometimes it's best to let things slide.

 

[Raye82]

Communication!!!!

Don't argue...discuss. People don't hear you when you are being combative.

 

[SpacelySprockets]

bytches aint shyt

 

[Remote]

bytches aint shyt

 

[AllHolosEve]

if you love that chick & shes always by your side, treat her good... i lost the best girl i ever had over pride & anger... it wasnt worth it...

 

[Action Jackson]

• Choose your battles
• You gotta have respect
• Let past arguments go
• Effort has to be 50-50
• Trust is earned

Mostly, you can't bring past relationships into your current one. Learn from your past but don't carry it with you.

 

[Lobo]

Being honest

 

[Remote]

if you love that chick & shes always by your side, treat her good... i lost the best girl i ever had over pride & anger... it wasnt worth it...

Sounds like you learned some real shyt.

A lot of people don't learn a damn thing from relationships and just blame the other person.

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

If you're not disagreeing or arguing from time to time, you're not communicating.

Money isn't everything.

 

[Egomaniacal1]

Know who you're dealing with, it is key.

Free will ensures that there is no such thing as a good or bad girl, only shades of both that ebb and flow in all of us. So when you find someone you are highly compatible with that fits your mold of what you want in a s/o, learn to quickly look past their small transgressions and forgive some of their bigger ones too.

 

[Nobuo Uematsu]

If you're not disagreeing or arguing from time to time, you're not communicating.

Money isn't everything.

some real-ass advice I read the other day: "Money is a game, find ways to work together as a team to win it. It never helps when teammates fight. Figure out ways to leverage both persons strength to win."

 

[Wildin]

its impossible to love someone as much or more than you love yourself.

people talk that ideal shyt. id die for them, id give them my last breath of air if it were between me and her, my last dollar, last drop of water/food.

im bout to become a divorce lawyer. thats where the money and the laughs are.

 

[Swirv]

Dont push your woman away.

 

[Rell]

There is always another dude trying to get your girl....

 

[EA]

Don't get caught up in the honeymoon period and think about the years ahead with your girl. Your relationship can end in a moments notice.