What's the best way to get over a bytch?

lespaulultra3

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my whole life been pressure though bruh. Since the start, I was born 4 months early. My mom always tried her best but I had too many health issues. Always moving around. Pink slips. EBT. Lights off in the winter. Roaches crawling on you in your sleep. So I feel like this doesn't make me weak, it just makes me tired.

We all have had problems in our lives (well most of us) so I don't feel sorry for you one bit. Anyway, it sounds like you are depressed. People are suggesting to find another chick and I disagree. You are in no condition to be dating again. You will run off any new women you meet simply because you will always be talking and thinking about your ex. You will make new women in your life suffer due to your insecurities and depression. My advice would be to just take some time off from dating and focus on your own life. Minimum 6 months and it might even take longer. People don't just casually try to commit suicide so you need to face those demons now. You have the rest of your life to date so there's no need to jump back in now. You sound like a basketcase so I don't blame your ex for leaving. Focus on your mental health and find a hobby. Surround yourself with people that make you stronger. Don't contact your ex and delete her off of social media. She might even look you up later on down the line. Anybody here will tell you that the best way to get a woman's attention is to completely ignore her. Act like she doesn't exist. The fact that you are chasing her like a sick puppy is only pushing her further away.
 

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The best way is to first cut off contact and then work on becoming physically, mentally, and spiritually stronger.

Sart talking to new girls. You don't want to give bitternessa chance to fill the void.
 

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We all have had problems in our lives (well most of us) so I don't feel sorry for you one bit. Anyway, it sounds like you are depressed. People are suggesting to find another chick and I disagree. You are in no condition to be dating again. You will run off any new women you meet simply because you will always be talking and thinking about your ex. You will make new women in your life suffer due to your insecurities and depression. My advice would be to just take some time off from dating and focus on your own life. Minimum 6 months and it might even take longer. People don't just casually try to commit suicide so you need to face those demons now. You have the rest of your life to date so there's no need to jump back in now. You sound like a basketcase so I don't blame your ex for leaving. Focus on your mental health and find a hobby. Surround yourself with people that make you stronger. Don't contact your ex and delete her off of social media. She might even look you up later on down the line. Anybody here will tell you that the best way to get a woman's attention is to completely ignore her. Act like she doesn't exist. The fact that you are chasing her like a sick puppy is only pushing her further away.
Tell a depressed person you don’t feel sorry for them brehs
 

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I'mma keep it a hunnid with you....while you'll eventually link up with another chick ain't no guarantee that you'll ever meet a chick better than the one you just broke up with. That chick meant something to you and always will so you want to know something i wish someone had told me when i was young? There's life after a breakup for two people. Meaning if you just play it cool and let some time go by...use that time to work on self, improve your monetary situation, work out, etc...after some time passes you can usually flip a chick you've been with into a good friend or fukk buddy.

Also in your mind you should tell yourself she IS fukking other guys now. Tell yourself this for two reasons, to not simp her anymore and to help keep you in your masculine frame, ie not overly emotional about the situation. Can't nothing take away the pain of a breakup, but realize if she ever cared about you that she's hurting too so she'll be in touch and when she does you don't want to still be crazy over her. Play it cool and you can keep her in your life on your terms. Namaste and good luck my brother.
 
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