I can tell that you guys don't watch debates often, Obama's flaw is in his long-windedness and in his professorial tone, but all Mitt is doing is speaking louder and in generalities. The fact that you guys are saying Mitt is winning is the same reason people liked Kennedy over Nixon in those debates because he was the more likeable looking guy.
For everyone saying that Romney is "smashing" Obama, please say specifically what he has said. He just has more energy, that's just it.
Dude you know how these things work...it has very little to do with what either guy says but rather how they said and what they looked like while saying it.
The substance of what Al Gore said in 2000 was far more compelling than what GW Bush said but Bush won the optics battle and that is usually all that matters in televised debates.