What Value Can A Woman Bring To Your Life?

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Mine brought friendship, partnership, mental/emotional support, guidance when I’ve lost sight of the bigger picture, presence when I’m not around to do something, constant laughter, a source of a different perspective, and she’s a awesome mother to our child…. And sometimes she brings stress because she’s super cheap/frugal. Similar to what my own parent brought each other.

I see a lot of arguments about gender roles, online. Honestly just ignore all that shyt, and just be. Then hopefully you’ll find somebody doing the same and y’all can just “be” together. All the guru’s and whatever-sphere are speaking empty bullshyt about how to gamify partnerships based on biology, mental stimulus, and two people wanting to be together so bad that they do what it takes to stay together. Nobody is more of a prize than the other, nobody needs to be leading or following. A team is only as strong as its weakest link, why the fukk not be equal. Just be, and enjoy each other.
 
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I'm the exact same way breh. Still want to find that special woman though
Agreed, me too. I am not one of those cats that thinks women have nothing to offer. I'm just trying to figure out.
To answer the question of what a woman brings,

You'd have to look at a healthy successful society and what it was built on. And that answer is family.


If people are just fuking and having kids out of wedlock and parents don't want to get old, where does that lead us? People think shyt is sweet right now. Give another 20 years. A lot of social decay is coming.
Of course family is important. I'm moreso thinking of what she can do, given her expectations of me.
its the honest truth

the ideal answer:
- emotional support
- a confidant... someone to cover your blindspots (e.g., you might wanna make a move but she can see the risks or dangers youre missing)
- someone to share chores with
- companionship
- sex
- wealth building
- family building

however, online discourse/brainwashing makes this harder to find nowadays unless you really lower your standards look-wise

a friend of mine is getting divorced right now; apparently his wife told him "I can be there for you financially or emotionally...but not both" after he lost his job lol
Exactly breh. Not every woman is a good woman. We get this for men but people don't get it works both ways.

I gotta figure out what i want
 

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Friendship, unconditional love, support and help where you need it, understanding, your personal sex object, trust, a beautiful stable family

It's on you to find it :yeshrug:
 

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Easy. The answer that everybody (men & women) want to hear but nobody will say without flowering it up...

"I will be your servant and give up my life and ambition to cater to you. You can guide me even it you are unqualified and you can mistreat me but I will always forgive you no matter how much it damages me. You will be my world until you are finished with me."
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To be perfectly honest, besides in house sex nothing really, all that “cooking and cleaning” shyt is irrelevant cause this aint 1920 we have washers/dryers stoves and ovens, cooking isn’t hard to do nor is just cleaning up after yourself as you go along, and women are too easy to get these days to just be stuck with one
 

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We need women. They balance us out. We’d be fighting all day and measuring ego’s if women weren’t around.
 

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Agreed, me too. I am not one of those cats that thinks women have nothing to offer. I'm just trying to figure out.

Of course family is important. I'm moreso thinking of what she can do, given her expectations of me.

Exactly breh. Not every woman is a good woman. We get this for men but people don't get it works both ways.

I gotta figure out what i want

I think People are making it more difficult than it needs to be. A couple should be a team helping each other out, whether it's finances, household duties, mental and physical health, the kids, etc. I don't think anyone in a healthy relationship and has experienced good women would even ask that question. Funny enough, the question came from Paul Pierce and not a happily married man. A lot dudes want to live a degenerate lifestyle then marry a good wife. It don't work like that.
 
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Sorry Ms Cleo but I have a great relationship with my dad. He literally text me yesterday telling me loved me and he can't wait until he sees me again. Lol

Do you have an original thought or are you gonna parrot another insult you heard another man say? Try the next flashcard.

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Congrats on your “dad” telling you he loves you lmao
 
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