what makes someone a simp?

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the word gets tossed around a lot but what do you ladies think makes a guy a simp?

I think it's someone who pretends to enjoy the company of/overextending themselves financially or otherwise for someone they don't really even like that much in hopes that it would be reciprocated sexually one day.
 

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Someone who allows a person to walk all over them because they think it will make their romantic interest want them.

For instance paying someones bill because that you just met because you like them.

I woukdn't say that it's not those who don't like them. I think those people are just grooming the person not necessarily simping.


Edit: A simp is not a person that compliments people, does nice things for women, and etc. It is just someone that goes above and beyond for someone they barely know thinking it will cause them to like him/her. I've seen young women write term papers for young men, because they think he will like them. I've seen young men give a young woman a ride to wherever she wants to go, because he thinks it will make her like him. FAIL on both ends.
 
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The same thing that makes a black person a c00n.

A simp is a man that turns against his own manhood to appease and gain approval from women...Because deep down, he hates himself and doesn't believe he can pull women being himself.

Self-unworthiness is a disease :wow:
 
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Some really good break downs from both male and female posters..

I will add this


Being nice to a woman, showing her chivalry, and treating her with respect are NOT examples of simping. If a man likes a woman and is dating her, then a few romantic gestures (within reason) in order to impress upon her his interests in intimacy are fine. Remember, the man's JOB is to attempt to mentally, emotionally, and physically stimulate the woman (I.e. Woo her) so that she finds him ideal for sharing her mind, body, and soul.

Where simping comes in, is when the woman has either made her uninterest known, or has clearly demonstrated a passive and/or manipulative tendency towards the male, and the male continues to ignore these signals and attempts to "win over" the woman by spending EXCESSIVE amounts of time/ and or money with nothing to show in mutual gain from the female. The male has now WILLINGLY accepted his status in the "friend zone" while complaining to his male counterparts about his lack of success.

Once the male's associates (many of them enjoying their own relationships and not wanting to hear any more whining) have stopped listening to his excessive complaints, the male's depression then begins to morph into a form of sexual frustration, which he can only relieve by logging into a forum called The Coli and, along with a frightening number of other sexually confused males, begin to bytch about the lack of "Quality black women" ad nauseum. Many of them will even take on the theory (long since disproven by fact) that pasty pale white women (affectionately known as PAWGS by the more racially neutered black males) are preferable in appreciating the lack of confidence and social skill of these individuals.

They then go on to live lives consisting of pornographic addiction and masturbation (known as "fapping") using their own tears as lubricant.



#tpc
 
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Some really good break downs from both male and female posters..

I will add this


Being nice to a woman, showing her chivalry, and treating her with respect are NOT examples of simping. If a man likes a woman and is dating her, then a few romantic gestures (within reason) in order to impress upon her his interests in intimacy are fine. Remember, the man's JOB is to attempt to mentally, emotionally, and physically stimulate the woman (I.e. Woo her) so that she finds him ideal for sharing her mind, body, and soul.

Where simping comes in, is when the woman has either made her uninterest known, or has clearly demonstrated a passive and/or manipulative tendency towards the male, and the male continues to ignore these signals and attempts to "win over" the woman by spending EXCESSIVE amounts of time/ and or money with nothing to show in mutual gain from the female. The male has now WILLINGLY accepted his status in the "friend zone" while complaining to his male counterparts about his lack of success.

Once the male's associates (many of them enjoying their own relationships and not wanting to hear any more whining) have stopped listening to his excessive complaints, the male's depression then begins to morph into a form of sexual frustration, which he can only relieved by logging into a forum called The Coli and, along with a frightening number of other sexually confused males, begin to bytch about the lack of "Quality black women" ad nauseum. Many of them will even take on the theory (long since disproven by fact) that pasty pale white women (affectionately known as PAWGS by the more racially neutered black males) are preferable in appreciating the lack of confidence and social skill of these individuals.

They then go on to live lives consisting of pornographic addiction and masturbation (known as "fapping") using their own tears as lubricant.



#tpc
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Someone who allows a person to walk all over them because they think it will make their romantic interest want them.

For instance paying someones bill because that you just met because you like them.

I woukdn't say that it's not those who don't like them. I think those people are just grooming the person not necessarily simping.


Edit: A simp is not a person that compliments people, does nice things for women, and etc. It is just someone that goes above and beyond for someone they barely know thinking it will cause them to like him/her. I've seen young women write term papers for young men, because they think he will like them. I've seen young men give a young woman a ride to wherever she wants to go, because he thinks it will make her like him. FAIL on both ends.


Right here.
 
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Some really good break downs from both male and female posters..

I will add this


Being nice to a woman, showing her chivalry, and treating her with respect are NOT examples of simping. If a man likes a woman and is dating her, then a few romantic gestures (within reason) in order to impress upon her his interests in intimacy are fine. Remember, the man's JOB is to attempt to mentally, emotionally, and physically stimulate the woman (I.e. Woo her) so that she finds him ideal for sharing her mind, body, and soul.

Where simping comes in, is when the woman has either made her uninterest known, or has clearly demonstrated a passive and/or manipulative tendency towards the male, and the male continues to ignore these signals and attempts to "win over" the woman by spending EXCESSIVE amounts of time/ and or money with nothing to show in mutual gain from the female. The male has now WILLINGLY accepted his status in the "friend zone" while complaining to his male counterparts about his lack of success.

Once the male's associates (many of them enjoying their own relationships and not wanting to hear any more whining) have stopped listening to his excessive complaints, the male's depression then begins to morph into a form of sexual frustration, which he can only relieve by logging into a forum called The Coli and, along with a frightening number of other sexually confused males, begin to bytch about the lack of "Quality black women" ad nauseum. Many of them will even take on the theory (long since disproven by fact) that pasty pale white women (affectionately known as PAWGS by the more racially neutered black males) are preferable in appreciating the lack of confidence and social skill of these individuals.

They then go on to live lives consisting of pornographic addiction and masturbation (known as "fapping") using their own tears as lubricant.



#tpc

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A simp doesn't know his own worth as a man and believes women come before him. He views himself as a second to women which makes him show sporadic displays of foolishness and weakness in his dealings with the opposite sex.
 
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