Malik
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The other day I searched POF for older women just on a whim. I felt bad for alot of them 
What is it about thugs that so enamors black women?
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O.T.I.S.
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I just figured it out while in the "Disrespectful women" thread...
Your co-worker is attracted to Thug ass dudes because they appear to be the least insecure of the men she dates...
I'm pretty sure that your co-worker is at fault somewhat.. most these women have shallow expectations that they walk into a relationship with.. Or she has a preference and won't give certain men the time of day until she gets older. It happened to my Aunt
But for the most part, insecure dudes don't want to date her because she's a successful, independent black woman. While some "thugs" don't care... they will probably even use her to get/do certain things
Tell her to find a semi-successful or equally successful black dude that likes her for her and that isn't bytch-made about the amount of money she makes. I think it's hard for black professional woman to find a man because if a man is more successful than her, he probably won't date her because he has other options or is to insecure to date someone with close earning potential as him... and then there are the dudes who earn less who feel insecure because they think of her as the breadwinner, so they steer away from the relationship. Then there are the thugs that see her as a easy come-up and smash but have no intentions of settling down or becoming a functional being in society....
So long story short, your co-worker needs a nikka like me
. Someone who dates older women, don't have a problem blowing backs out, and make my own money LEGALLY so I don't give a fukk about hers
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She preferred. She's off that now and claims to be open to any type or race at this point.
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I'm more talking about my personal situation with the people I know. And the fact of the matter is, i know and am related to alot of successful black women in thier 30's that can't find a suitable mate.
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She claims all the men she's dated have been obsessed with sex, and she made a vow to not get intimate with another man unless a serious relationship develops first. She claims this is the reason men are breaking up with her lately.
I just figured it out while in the "Disrespectful women" thread...
Your co-worker is attracted to Thug ass dudes because they appear to be the least insecure of the men she dates...
I'm pretty sure that your co-worker is at fault somewhat.. most these women have shallow expectations that they walk into a relationship with.. Or she has a preference and won't give certain men the time of day until she gets older. It happened to my Aunt
But for the most part, insecure dudes don't want to date her because she's a successful, independent black woman. While some "thugs" don't care... they will probably even use her to get/do certain things
Tell her to find a semi-successful or equally successful black dude that likes her for her and that isn't bytch-made about the amount of money she makes. I think it's hard for black professional woman to find a man because if a man is more successful than her, he probably won't date her because he has other options or is to insecure to date someone with close earning potential as him... and then there are the dudes who earn less who feel insecure because they think of her as the breadwinner, so they steer away from the relationship. Then there are the thugs that see her as a easy come-up and smash but have no intentions of settling down or becoming a functional being in society....
So long story short, your co-worker needs a nikka like me
gonna have to ask you stfu on this
Klyk21
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True. However, thugs in other races aren't out there impregnating multiple women and leaving them to raise said child.....add on please
I'll be damned if they aren't more thug babies than men babies out here in these streets. I'm sure thugs have more or atleast a high fukking percentage
O.T.I.S.
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Of course, this fakkit only seeing what he wants to seethe OTIS plan
You are the definition of a weak ass nikka breh... I feel bad for you
O.T.I.S.
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Or you could go suck a dikk and not read my post
don't feel bad for me, friend. feel bad that you feel the need to manipulate women to get what you want from them.Of course, this fakkit only seeing what he wants to see
You are the definition of a weak ass nikka breh... I feel bad for you
Or you could go suck a dikk and not read my post
ill leave that shyt to you. only a bytch nigguh would be insecure about a black women that makes more money that him.
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this and women love aggressive men. "bad boys" usually dont give a fukk and get at these broads. ive seen too many lames on here talmout "its not fair men have to approach women" or "i let women approach me".
"bad boys" cut str8 to the chase and goes after what they want. "nice guys" are the ones that end up in the friendzone becuz they werent aggressive enough. plain & simple women want a man that makes them feel like a little girl. they want a man that leads them. a man they can look up to and feel protected by. "bad boys" offer those traits and most "nice guys" dont.