What is it about thugs that so enamors black women?

[Hiphoplives4eva]

Please educate me on this gals especially. I recently had a discussion with a co-worker, who was upset at the lack of good men out there. She's African-American, 37. relatively attractive, has a great career, but constantly laments her lack of ability to find a good man. A few weeks ago, she was describing to me her woes with finding men, and honestly, i couldn't really give her a good answer on how to find a man.

But she did admit to me that she had a thing for thugs as a girl, and tended to date bad boys. In her later years she had considerably expanded her dating pool, but she always complains about guys wanting nothing but sex and being terrified of commitment.

She's tried the local churches, and all the usual online dating sites but to no avail.

I've unfortunately numerous black female friends in the same predicament. That is, they're looking to settle down in their mid to late thirties, but unwilling to find a mate (preferably African American) seeking a similar goal.

She's asking me for advice and i figured i'd bounce it off ya'll. What kind of advice should i give her to help her attract a mate?

 

[observe]

She wants that Thug Passion

 

[Broke Wave]

It's just just black women, but ok.

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

she says she prefers "badboys" and "thugs" but maybe if she can find out what about them she likes specifically she can look for that in men that arent "thugs"

 

[Guess Who]

Sounds more like nobody wants to commit to her because there's something about her that men don't want to commit to. She needs to figure out what that is and change it.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

It's just just black women, but ok.

word
like the bad boy image is not appealing to women of other races

 

[Elle Driver]

It's a teenage thing, I don't see why a grown ass woman would still want a thug ass dude. It's the rush that comes with being able to change and make a dude into a good guy. Or that a normally a rowdy ass dude gives you attention and treats you nice. A lot of them be abusive in nature, and the women who flock to them are drawn to that because they are generally fukked up too.

 

[Lana Kane]

Sounds more like nobody wants to commit to her because there's something about her that men don't want to commit to. She needs to figure out what that is and change it.

she sounds like a good catch..

 

[Scientific Playa]

Lot of her male peer group is either dead or in jail. Funny, she racked up her choochie mileage with dat thug lovin and now wants a good guy when she's pushin 40. She might as well explore other cultures to settle down with.

 

[Guess Who]

she sounds like a good catch..

Based on what?

 

[Broke Wave]

word
like the bad boy image is not appealing to women of other races

Word as if that biker cac from Sons of Anarchy ain't the hottest thing to these white women right now.

It's a teenage thing, I don't see why a grown ass woman would still want a thug ass dude. It's the rush that comes with being able to change and make a dude into a good guy. Or that a normally a rowdy ass dude gives you attention and treats you nice. A lot of them be abusive in nature, and the women who flock to them are drawn to that because they are generally fukked up too.

I think they just like they riskiness that comes along with a "bad boy" ... he doesn't necessarily have to be a criminal, just a dude that doesn't take shyt and does risky shyt. You can see a nikka like Mohammed Ali was a bad boy in a sense back in the day.

 

[Ego Noir]

Power.

Women like men with power. That simple.

Badboys impose their will on the world. Good guys follow rules.

 

[mortuus est]

More time i laugh at females that want guys that act like thugs

if she wants a badboy you better chuck her in the trash bag

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Same thing about bad boys that entice every race of women

How do u clowns not get tired of this

 

[Sugar]

Sounds like a women who whored herself out during her prime and scared all of the nikkas away that she's looking for now

No sympathy, charge her to the game, NEXT