What has changed in America where nobody can stay married?

[Jhoon]

Seeing that woman no longer feel inclined to stay in marriages today, exactly how would you label the arrangement in prior generations?

 

[SHO-NUFF]

a happy wife means you are spineless with no backbone because she always gets her way, she doesn't want to cook, clean, work its ok hunny dont worry

THIS! heads MUST be butt, in order for you 2 to grow together as one.....confrontation is gonna happen, AS IT SHOULD It got better for me the minute I realized that her being pissed off is part of the process, and should have NO BEARING on my decision on what to do next..... I don't believe in a man-cave; WE have the house, and I chose somebody that shares my same taste in decor, party hosting, etc....

If she ain't actin super crazy when ya'll argue\ya'll never argue, I hate to break it to you brehs, but that aint ya gal

 

[Jhoon]

75-80% you can doubt this all you want but it's not lowering...for a reason.

eighty percent of a declining number should be damning evidence that there was something terribly wrong with the act to begin with.

 

[Theraflu]

As someone getting married in 8 weeks I can see why men aren't staying with women longer. Sorry but most women of today are trash and that's the honest truth. Women have changed not men.

If you are lucky enough to find a woman untainted by Western garbage, marry her but the rest ? they're not worth your time....

 

[Londilon]

It's popular to be a THOT so brothas are eating good and not feeling the need to settle down.

 

[Jhoon]

It's popular to be a THOT so brothas are eating good and not feeling the need to settle down.

When men were running around and abandoning their families, abusing their wives, and engaging in terrible behavior, that as the apex of manliness?

 

[Blankthawtz]

my parents have been married for 41 years......i want that....

 

[Jhoon]

As someone getting married in 8 weeks I can see why men aren't staying with women longer. Sorry but most women of today are trash and that's the honest truth. Women have changed not men.

If you are lucky enough to find a woman untainted by Western garbage, marry her but the rest ? they're not worth your time....

No, people are trash.

 

[BlackAchilles]

Introduction of the no-fault divorce.

 

[Theraflu]

No, people are trash.

Western women are at their very worst, sorry. I wouldn't want to marry one either.

 

[Jhoon]

Western women are at their very worst, sorry. I wouldn't want to marry one either.

So you're ideal woman is a woman without a voice? Without options? You define your manliness by the oppression of women? Theres a group of people who apply this logic in the oppression of another group of people.

 

[Londilon]

So you're ideal woman is a woman without a voice? Without options? You define your manliness by the oppression of women? Theres a group of people who apply this logic in the oppression of another group of people.

Damn this thread has you hit.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

eighty percent of a declining number should be damning evidence that there was something terribly wrong with the act to begin with.

that's another thread tho.I'm gonna throw the alley oop to reincar he will slam dunk that point.

 

[Londilon]

People now have the means to act on anything they wish now. Your husband boring you? Send an message to your ex on Facebook. Tired of your wife in the sack? Make a tinder account. Nowadays, cracks in relationships are like cracks in windshields. You're gonna have to overhaul the whole thing or accept that it's going to fall apart. There's really no incentive to "problem solve" or "figure things out" any more. There's more options than ever now, and people are starting to attach values to their relationships, values that can fluctuate or be surpassed any day.

I hear girls say every day that when they find a richer, better off man, they're on to that next one. Dudes out here value getting ass and stacking chips more than spending or building with one particular person. The concept of growing and developing with one person, in a committed union, is falling by the wayside. And to take its place, we have a culture of what amounts to drive thru relationships, where we have one eye on the now, and the other looking for the next best thing.

We're in a totally different generation, and it'll be interesting to see where things stand about a couple decades from now.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

A marriage disagreement can turn into disrespect and once a woman disrespect you,it's OVER.