Ewwwww. The fact that someone would think "one of the good ones" is a compliment at any capacity is crazy. Backhanded and showing how they really feel about a group consisting of millions of ppl.
As far as this thread is concerned it's pointless subject. African and Caribbean folks like to dismiss that a portion of them do look down in Black Americans and Black Americans will not admit that some of us carry a certain amount of xenophobia.
Everybody does it in some form...
That might not be the exact phrase used...
For example it is thought by some that all Jamaican guys are street guys, cheaters, violent, dunce etc etc negatives
MANY are
for example I was talking to a wite guy once
he said "you know ______, we go on holidays every month skiing and safaris"?
he was referring to the Jamaican folks he knows who are upper middle class world travellers
in his mind all Jamaicans were nice and wonderful people
stereotypes and experiences
so if an African mother or any mother had a stereotype and was proven wrong
is that not a good thing?
did you not break a stereotype?