What did I do wrong? spent 150 dollar on a date to impress and court her, she is being distant

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My nikka you did waayyyyyy too much for a first date. Boat ride on a river?? :dahell:

If she not feeling you over a walk in the park and some ice cream then none of that other shyt was going work.
Shyt...hit a movie & a bar/lounge/ club up to keep it simple if you wanna be social.

Movie:$20
Bar: Lets say $10 cover
Bottle beforehand:$34

Breh went & treated a first date like an anniversary/bday for your girlfriend :mjlol:
 

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Took you for your shyt then pulled an uncle Charles on you B

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See ya at the crossroads... You'll learn and be aight :francis:
 

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I am trying not to be salty but I really can't help but be disappointed. Even paid for her uber to come pick her up back and forth.

Treated her to a proper date. I did everything a gentleman...like damn at least have the decency to not wait two days to answer my did you get home safely text. I feel like a damn sucka right now.

Here's what you did wrong, you spent 150 on a date for a chick you not even fukkin

:deadmanny:

If she ain't fukkin for wings, long islands, and karaoke

She not worth it
 

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I am trying not to be salty but I really can't help but be disappointed. Even paid for her uber to come pick her up back and forth.

Treated her to a proper date. I did everything a gentleman...like damn at least have the decency to not wait two days to answer my did you get home safely text. I feel like a damn sucka right now.
did u write her a poem and laminate it:ufdup:
 

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150 on a first date breh?


I never spend more than 60 on a first date unless I know for sure the girl is interested.

I usually plan low key first dates like getting a drink and walking in a park or a boardwalk which theres not a lot of money involved. So I can gauge her interest.

Just keep it moving, she's not that into you. Theres a lot more women out there.
 

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150??

In case you're not trolling, I'm gonna outline some basics for you:

- On a first date, take her to a "really good hole-in-the-wall" place in a hipster neighborhood. That way you can pretend to be bougie on pennies.

- Follow that up with a free comedy show. Show up slightly late so you can have an excuse to sit toward the back.

- Ask her to meet you midway somewhere, and do not offer to pay for a damn ride.

- Don't blow more than 50 bucks on a date if you haven't nailed her yet.

- Don't build up a relationship in your mind with a woman if it doesn't exist in reality. That will cause you to over commit to her when she doesn't know how she feels about you.
This man ain't lying
 
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