What brothas need to know about women and "submission"

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Women by their nature wanna submit to a man. You just gotta have your shyt together.

The most unhappy people right now in America are 30+ year old single professional women. They spent their 20s getting multiple degrees and moving up in corporate america only to realize that didn't make them happy. They also realized no man their age and income level wants them because they would rather marry a woman that is younger and prettier. Most of these women are now having to date down the social ladder with men who are less educated and make less money than them. If a woman makes more than her man, that relationship is bound to get toxic. And that is happening more and more now.

Women don't wanna be the breadwinner. They wanna be the wife of the breadwinner. They don't want to work in corporate america. They want to be housewives. Women by their nature wanna be feminine and submit to a masculine man.
the most unhappy demographic is men 40+, that's why they hang and shoot themselves in the head at such high rates. If you wait to " get your shyt together" to have a woman submit to you what happens if you lose that financial stability and status? she's gone. Was that really true submission? If women didn't say "how high" until you could offer them something financially, accept your role as the stable provider and just pay for the most attractive woman you can afford. But she's going to bounce eventually. Women submit to men that don't have it together all the time.
 

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But that is what makes you a man. Your wallet and your status. I guess being a self-made man is more impressive than just being a guy who came into money because of your family. But in general the more successful a man is, the richer he is, and thus the higher his status. And women judge men on that barometer.

that’s all superficial shyt. We are all superficial to a point but if the ONLY reason she submits to you is because of money and status then that’s not a strong foundation. Cause both of those things can change very quickly.
 

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Women don’t watch none of these dating videos on “how to keep a man interested or 7 things you need to know if a man likes you, 6 things to say to a guy to let him know you like him” nah fukk em.

Those videos are still being watched, but only by women over 35, and lets be honest, nobody on here is checking for women over 35, which is why you forgot about them. Social Media made men look more desperate than ever and the average good-looking woman under 26 is not trying to be in a serious committed relationship anymore. Not to mention alot of women are now peeping Red Pill or finesse game instead like SheraSeven1/Michaela Pink. Guys like AlphaMaleStrategies went mainstream on Youtube, and I see other videos/posts from women using terminology like "hypergamy" that used to be only in Red Pill/Mgtow space.

That other thread "Men are the prize" is only partially true. Yeah, a man can be doing decent and look at himself in the mirror every morning as the prize, but it's more obvious to me now than ever you are only the prize to women if you are perceived as being in the top 20% through some combination of looks/resources/status/etc.

As far as the topic goes, yeah it's kind of unfortunate. I was a late bloomer and I'm at a weird spot where I would prefer a monogamous situation, but know that would not actually be the best thing for me now since I didn't get it in like I should have 5-10 years ago, my money ain't built like that yet and these women in their 20's are ruthless anyway. So I just gotta keep grinding and push the 5's and 6's out of the way to grab a 7,8, and 9 every once in a while:yeshrug:
 

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it ain't even that they be all the way wrong

but if your vibe is repulsive broads will always sniff it out

they got a lot of hate & negativity in them towards women it kills natural attraction

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Women are attracted to success. If you are successful they will feel you.

Status is what matters most to women. Just as looks matter most to men.
 
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the most unhappy demographic is men 40+, that's why they hang and shoot themselves in the head at such high rates. If you wait to " get your shyt together" to have a woman submit to you what happens if you lose that financial stability and status? she's gone. Was that really true submission? If women didn't say "how high" until you could offer them something financially, accept your role as the stable provider and just pay for the most attractive woman you can afford. But she's going to bounce eventually. Women submit to men that don't have it together all the time.

Well most men also lose in the game of life so what you're saying is true. What this brotha was saying and what I'm cosigning is the best path forward. A guy with his finances in order has a higher chance of success in the game of love than a broke guy. No matter how hard you wanna juelz women are driven by hypergamy. They wanna be with the man with the most clout. In grade school its the cool guy in school. As we get older its the man with the most money.

Human nature is what it is. We gotta stop denying it.
 

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Some of the men here are too hungry for control and power...you will turn most woman off with the sense of entitlement you have and the fact that you are seeking submission.

I have met a few men in my life where I thought they were truly good individuals and I could see them being "submitted" to in a relationship.

The way many posters post here (unless they are different irl)...I just don't see that quality. It's deeper than money, it's more about who you are as a person and how you carry yourself and interact with others.

Also, it should not take you all of your 20s and all of you 30s to get financially stable.
 
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that’s all superficial shyt. We are all superficial to a point but if the ONLY reason she submits to you is because of money and status then that’s not a strong foundation. Cause both of those things can change very quickly.

True. But the same can be said for men who predominantly choose a wife based on looks and that detriorates even quicker.

We are driven to pick the best mate possible at all times. When we discover the person we are with is no longer the best option for us the relationship is doomed. So goes the game of life.
 
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Can only speak for the women I know, when I say that we submit to men we respect, trust, and admire. :yeshrug:

That's code for guy with the most resources.

You can't fight your genes. These behaviors were encoded in our ancestors since the beginning.

Men chase beauty while women chase providers.
 
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