What apparently makes thin black girls less attractive?

[marcuz]

@marcuz has declared some about me; he believes I'll end up with a non-black. It could be my weight and my background that makes him say this but I've also gotten the "I could see you with a white man" from other black people. Says a lot

you're slim-thick-fit though

i gotta whole list of reasons why you'll end up with a non-black man or woman, and none of it has to do with your shape.

 

[Kaguya]

People say a lot of shyt, but, what you see out in the real world won't reflect it....thin women can eat too (pun intended) just like their thick counterparts. But, you and @Kaguya practically admit to not being around many Black men based on the demographics of your location...Which is the biggest problem. When you're only interaction with Black men is walking pass us in the streets...There's lies the issue. Re-invent your circles.

I see black people all the time, and black people see me. the majority white elderly town was in reference to places to go/places to meet people, so young people of any race havenowhere to hang out at. The only place I'm not near black people is work and that's where I get hit on at, not at the mall, the movies, out to eat (all on the black side of town)

 

[AB Ziggy]

I'm aware. I know a lot of black men into slim women. There's a type for everyone.

Edit
Wait, are you saying you don't like regular slim women?

I like slim.

But I'm not exactly fond of skinny fat tho. Which is different from slim.

 

[EARFQUAKE]

you're slim-thick-fit though

i gotta whole list of reasons why you'll end up with a non-black man or woman, and none of it has to do with your shape.

Aight

 

[The Mad Titan]

2:22

 

[The Mad Titan]

I've never heard of this thin black girls being less attractive thing.

Unless you mean thin as in no shape or curves. If they shaped like a teenage boy then yeah....

 

[Giselle]

"less attractive" idk

I think they see us as less "womanly" though. I have small boobs as well, so I guess it's different if yours are bigger. I think I'm considered slim or normal sized too, not thin (like a size 2). Y'all should've posted pics.

I've never gotten 'You should date white men" either. I only know of 3 white guys who were attracted to me. I usually attract short black males (less than 6ft tall) and black teen aged boys or boys younger than me (early 20s) and if they are my age, they look like teens. I don't like that look though.

 

[Black Barbie]

"less attractive" idk

I think they see us as less "womanly" though. (I have small boobs as well, so I guess it's different if yours are bigger)

I usually attract short males (less than 6ft tall) and teen aged boys or boys younger than me (early 20s) and if they are my age, they look like teens. I don't like that look though.

This is what I meant.

 

[Raava]

I don't hear that a lot but I have heard it. Yet I see Slender, obese, flat chested, no booty and everything in between with Black women with Black men so

People say anything and have a problem with stating their opinion as fact, especially online.
Also there is a grass is greener thing. People focus on what they don't have and hear that criticism vs. the other side.

 

[DarrynCobretti]

I mean I know AA men love thicker women but I don't really hear folks denigrating skinny women.

Skinny Black men and women both get told to "put some meat on your bones" or to "eat more".

Skinny cats will get called bird chested and boyish in a second

But they both still getting they fukk on

Personally, I don't think weight matters as much as shape. A skinny pear shaped woman

Facts.

OP, just need to be around more black guys. Growing up and living in predominantly black areas, thin and petite chicks never were considered less attractive. Especially if they were slim with some semblance of a shape.

Yeah in the south, both men and women tend to love thicker/beefier types - but growing up as a slim nikka I never felt less attractive because of it. Those lil cute cracks/jokes go away in the bedroom when it's time for them broads to take pipe.


Basically in shape people of all sizes are going to always get shown love, regardless of trends.

you're slim-thick-fit though

i gotta whole list of reasons why you'll end up with a non-black man or woman, and none of it has to do with your shape.

Let her paag in peace. She didn't choose the paag life, the paag life chose her

I don't hear that a lot but I have heard it. Yet I see Slender, obese, flat chested, no booty and everything in between with Black women with Black men so

People say anything and have a problem with stating their opinion as fact, especially online.
Also there is a grass is greener thing. People focus on what they don't have and hear that criticism vs. the other side.

Facts.

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

This thread reminds me of when I first posted pics of myself in a maxi dress and someone said, "I can see why you date white guys" hinting that I was not shapely enough for black men.

 

[Black Barbie]

Facts.

OP, just need to be around more black guys. Growing up and living in predominantly black areas, thin and petite chicks never were considered less attractive. Especially if they were slim with some semblance of a shape.

Yeah in the south, both men and women tend to love thicker/beefier types - but growing up as a slim nikka I never felt less attractive because of it. Those lil cute cracks/jokes go away in the bedroom when it's time for them broads to take pipe.


Basically in shape people of all sizes are going to always get shown love, regardless of trends.


Let her paag in peace. She didn't choose the paag life, the paag life chose her

Facts.

I'm from the south too. I was telling @King Musa that my social circle prior to moving to LA was much bigger. Now I live in a predominantly Latino neighborhood so unfortunately I don't see as many black people as I'd like to.

 

[Black Barbie]

This thread reminds me of when I first posted pics of myself in a maxi dress and someone said, "I can see why you date white guys" hinting that I was not shapely enough for black men.

Wow that's messed up.

 

[King Musa]

This thread reminds me of when I first posted pics of myself in a maxi dress and someone said, "I can see why you date white guys" hinting that I was not shapely enough for black men.

You're shapely below the waist, which would matter the most to a lot of us.

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

You're shapely below the waste, which would matter the most to a lot of us.

what about above the waist?

j/k, I plan on getting breast implants at some point in my life (probably after I have kids)