What apparently makes thin black girls less attractive?

Black Barbie

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Probably but I'm "intimidating" out in public and I can feel people looking at me but no one except for mid level drug dealers (black), Indians, and old white men...
Indians and white men:picard:
Have you tried changing up the places where you like to go to meet the kind of men you're looking for?
 

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Indians and white men:picard:
Have you tried changing up the places where you like to go to meet the kind of men you're looking for?

I'm 18, I live in a majority white town that geared more towards older white people and rich retirees so not really, I plan on moving sometime this year but idk yet
 

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I'm curious. As a thin black girl, I've personally never heard that I should date white men or that I look like I don't date black men (I'm not saying that it doesn't happen). I just wanna know what makes us supposedly so unappealing to men of our own race that people tell others that.

You're getting play, you just don't realize it.

It's probably not from the men YOU want :francis:
 

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People say a lot of shyt, but, what you see out in the real world won't reflect it....thin women can eat too (pun intended) just like their thick counterparts. But, you and @Kaguya practically admit to not being around many Black men based on the demographics of your location...Which is the biggest problem. When you're only interaction with Black men is walking pass us in the streets...There's lies the issue. Re-invent your circles.
 

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@marcuz has declared some :mjpls: about me; he believes I'll end up with a non-black. It could be my weight and my background that makes him say this but I've also gotten the "I could see you with a white man" from other black people. Says a lot :mjpls:
 

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@marcuz has declared some :mjpls: about me; he believes I'll end up with a non-black. It could be my weight and my background that makes him say this but I've also gotten the "I could see you with a white man" from other black people. Says a lot :mjpls:

But you're fit though. Black men will make an exception for athletes. :comeon:
 

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People say a lot of shyt, but, what you see out in the real world won't reflect it....thin women can eat too (pun intended) just like their thick counterparts. But, you and @Kaguya practically admit to not being around many Black men based on the demographics of your location...Which is the biggest problem. When you're only interaction with Black men is walking pass us in the streets...There's lies the issue. Re-invent your circles.
That's true. Where I'm from I had a large black circle compared to now. I need to move.
 
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