um...sometimes we just want to be left alone and just have fun.......? Is there an problem with that.....? and did I say that I hated when men approach in a social environment...? I just want to go to an bar after work without being hassled...fukk , sorry if my opinion made you catch feelings...sheesh.
You don't like undesirable men approaching you. Just tell the truth. At this point, you should be proficient enough to turn down men without pissing them off or pissing yourself off.