This is true for women with baby daddy's, but married women claim their husbands breh. Married couples get a lot of benefits.
Well....There goes the myth that most Black Men are Abandoning Their Responsibilities.
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This is true for women with baby daddy's, but married women claim their husbands breh. Married couples get a lot of benefits.
I don't even know what your talking about . Tax credits and white women stats . It's over .Not really. There's plenty of White hoes on my list as well but the percentages line up. I think only 40% of White mothers are single baby mommas. And it lines up with the roughly 4 out of 10 White Women on my list are washed up THOTs.
For the record I don't fukk White Women don't care about them and merely observe them. So when you say "All Women" it's really in reference to them since Whites are still like 65% of this country.
But the reality is that % wise more Black Women have made not so good decisions in Men than White Women.
And what benefit is it for these Women not to marry their boyfriend? They would then qualify for earned income tax credits and married couples with children pay less taxes. This logic makes no sense. Are you a Woman?
I know 2 married couples personally that claim they are separated. I work with one . He makes about $1000 more than me a check . His wife told the aide office they were separated . She gets stamps and childcare . All thingsthey couldn't get by being married .
HellRell804
Banned
Another woman bashing thread, they deserve to have children by any man they want to and if he's a bad choice its every other man's fault, you dry dikk, virgin, loser 
BrandonBanks
Arab Money
When the topic comes up, i always wonder how we're defining deadbeat, because my definition of one seems to be different than most black men.
Most black men seem to think that the only type of deadbeat is the one who is completely absent.
There are other types of deadbeats too.
When it comes to the dudes who could be there in the household helping the mom raise the kid but instead decided to move on and do their thing because they didn't want to raise them, and "pop in" every weekend or two to see them, they are also deadbeats to me. You don't abandon your kids just because you don't feel like being a full time dad. Most black men don't consider other black men to be a deadbeat as long as the nikka "sees" his kids. Seeing and raising them are two different things. I know dudes right now who don't consider themselves deadbeats because they "see" their kids but honestly i consider them to be. They don't do as much as they could and honestly their baby mama is too dumb to see that. Meanwhile those dudes leave and do what they want and drop crazy bread on whatever they want. I've known dudes who tell the baby mama they don't have it but then leave and cop an expensive watch
It is a problem. You're missing all sorts of moments in your kids lives by not being there but you want a cookie and parade thrown for stopping by when you feel like it?
I think we need to set the bar higher. Instead of breaking out the confetti and praise for "seeing" your kids, how about let's encourage 2 parent households where we stay and help raise them instead of being pop up dads
Most black men seem to think that the only type of deadbeat is the one who is completely absent.
There are other types of deadbeats too.
When it comes to the dudes who could be there in the household helping the mom raise the kid but instead decided to move on and do their thing because they didn't want to raise them, and "pop in" every weekend or two to see them, they are also deadbeats to me. You don't abandon your kids just because you don't feel like being a full time dad. Most black men don't consider other black men to be a deadbeat as long as the nikka "sees" his kids. Seeing and raising them are two different things. I know dudes right now who don't consider themselves deadbeats because they "see" their kids but honestly i consider them to be. They don't do as much as they could and honestly their baby mama is too dumb to see that. Meanwhile those dudes leave and do what they want and drop crazy bread on whatever they want. I've known dudes who tell the baby mama they don't have it but then leave and cop an expensive watch
It is a problem. You're missing all sorts of moments in your kids lives by not being there but you want a cookie and parade thrown for stopping by when you feel like it?
I think we need to set the bar higher. Instead of breaking out the confetti and praise for "seeing" your kids, how about let's encourage 2 parent households where we stay and help raise them instead of being pop up dads
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MalikX
Superstar
Of course. We know this. It's just the thots, the single moms and the simps denying it. My cousin got 5 babymamas and 12 kids. I have none. So the narrative gets pushed that we don't take care of our children when my cousin alone accounts for 5 different women and 12 kids by himself. I don't care though. Let them flail about in their misery.
timothy_strickland
BRUHZ
A lot of black women are actually childless. And they are the most educated ones.
But your 'rats, thots and 'chets keep making babies tho. Dumb, reckless, irresponsible and promiscious women mating with dumb, impulsive, irreponsible violent and emotionally careless nikkas who lack honor and you create another new generation of dysfunction.
Its a vicious circle and these thots are too dumb to understand that their own stupidity, their own impulsiveness, their own promiscuity and their own poor selection of mates ALL combine to make their own life and their own children hard.
But your 'rats, thots and 'chets keep making babies tho. Dumb, reckless, irresponsible and promiscious women mating with dumb, impulsive, irreponsible violent and emotionally careless nikkas who lack honor and you create another new generation of dysfunction.
Its a vicious circle and these thots are too dumb to understand that their own stupidity, their own impulsiveness, their own promiscuity and their own poor selection of mates ALL combine to make their own life and their own children hard.
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BrandonBanks
Arab Money
IMO, most black men (and many black women too) believe that the only type of deadbeat is the one who is completely absent. But there are other types of deadbeats, such as the pop-up dads. A lot of black men make excuses for them though, because they believe as long as the man "sees" the kids sometimes, that he can't be a deadbeat.
HellRell804
Banned
These stats can't be accurate. If they are, this is very damning for black women. This would really change the narrative on the plight of single mothers who were abandoned by no good men.
The institution of marriage and the shaming of out of wedlock babies was started because without the social shame of having sex before marriage, women would gladly share men and harems would form. The government took it a step forward and put up a safety net for women with absent fathers.
So here we are now, a man doesn't even have to be successful or accomplished to have a harem. Just look decent, be willing to tell women whatever they wanna hear, and slang that d. uncle sam got them kids
SmokyQuartz
Young Skull
So since the deadbeat dad theory was destroyed you simps are gonna come out with this "pop up" dad theory, even tho its classified as the same thing? Yall funny as hellWhen the topic comes up, i always wonder how we're defining deadbeat, because my definition of one seems to be different than most black men.
Most black men seem to think that the only type of deadbeat is the one who is completely absent.
There are other types of deadbeats too.
When it comes to the dudes who could be there in the household helping the mom raise the kid but instead decided to move on and do their thing because they didn't want to raise them, and "pop in" every weekend or two to see them, they are also deadbeats to me. You don't abandon your kids just because you don't feel like being a full time dad. Most black men don't consider other black men to be a deadbeat as long as the nikka "sees" his kids. Seeing and raising them are two different things. I know dudes right now who don't consider themselves deadbeats because they "see" their kids but honestly i consider them to be. They don't do as much as they could and honestly their baby mama is too dumb to see that. Meanwhile those dudes leave and do what they want and drop crazy bread on whatever they want. I've known dudes who tell the baby mama they don't have it but then leave and cop an expensive watch
It is a problem. You're missing all sorts of moments in your kids lives by not being there but you want a cookie and parade thrown for stopping by when you feel like it?
