Wear A Wedding Band & Watch The Results (Life Hack)

[D-NICE]

Op is telling no lies. I been married for over 10 years and its borderline scary how a band will draw more interest to you, especially if you trying to stay faithful. I thought getting my juelz:gif on and talking with my hands would help, that shyt actually seems to make it worse.

I am married...and this happens to me often while wearin my ring...and if i'm walkin the street with my 3 year old son or worse with my 3 month old son......its straight p*ssy attraction like i'm magneto.....

I used to wonder how dudes with multiple kids kept ending up with different women, then I had my kids.....it wouldn't even be playing fair if I was out there like that.

 

[blaccbeard]

You're blowing it way out of proportion, yeah some girls see the band as instant stability and a working penis, but from my experience most girls aint hawking for rings like that to creep on.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

But you’ve seen it happen, no? I’m just saying this isn’t a strictly woman thing @ben anderson . People want people that other people want. It’s why fat women don’t get taken out to dinner. If it doesn’t seem like other people want to bed her, she won’t be taken out.

Just to continue off this... men don’t seek validation from their homies/nikkas. We might ask for their opinion on a guh we’re interested in, like, “ what you think about ol guh”. *homie gives his rundown*. Our decision to pursue her isn’t tied up or based on our peers opinion of a guh unless we are looking to cuff and you hear word that ol guh is a sleeze, then we’ll proceed with caution(or at least we should). If my boy tells me a guh I’m eyeing is hit and I think she’s attractive as hell, guess what? I’m still about to holla.

I remember in high school I wasn’t getting any play until a cheerleader and track runner by the name of Chelsea( tall with a bubble, redbone, pretty face) started walking with me to lunch and shyt and sitting with me in Health class. Then all of a sudden the girls come flockin. Men don’t work like that.

Men see Ashanti as beautiful and gorgeous and want to be with her bc she just is. Not bc other men see her worth so we start noticing her too

Then why you guys only sneak into fat women’s apartments. Why are you guys embarrassed?

Bc she’s fat

 

[Mac Brown]

But you’ve seen it happen, no? I’m just saying this isn’t a strictly woman thing @ben anderson . People want people that other people want. It’s why fat women don’t get taken out to dinner. If it doesn’t seem like other people want to bed her, she won’t be taken out.

I'll answer this as an older breh who has experienced a lot. Yes it does happen, but not NEARLY at the same level at all with regards to women and taken/married men. As much as women would hate to admit... this is way more of a female thing, then men. And fat women do get taken out to dinner, because men are more likely to own there distinct taste in women and say fukk everything else. (I said more likely, because generally we don't care as much about social acceptance)

There are just plain old gender differences with humans with regards to mating. Always has been, always will be

 

[Mac Brown]

Facts. I got it thrown at me all the time as soon as I put on that ring. I was like where were yall at when I was single?

you absolutely right. When I was in my LTR, and we were hanging out... women would be scouting like crazy.....And I mean damn near DIMES...

Being single, you'd damn near have to kidnap a bytch to be near you. This is a majority woman thing from an evolutionary standpoint of how humans bred over millenia's

 

[Mac Brown]

If it wasn’t for laws, a lot of you wouldn’t have anywhere to spread your seed

the opposite....if it wasnt for laws, there would be even more violent sexual encounter between the sexes and seed would spread more. Humans are just primates.

 

[intruder]

Nah..
After my failed engagement..
I placed a black band on my finger..
Asian and Sistas stayed throwing play..
Especially them lonely jawns that are in Whole Foods/Trader Joes on Friday-Saturday night
Those were some savage years

Damn. Never thought of these as possible hunting grounds. I've been slipping.
This won't happen again

 

[Neuromancer]

@StarGirl in here fighting a losing battle

 

[Cabbage Patch]

But you’ve seen it happen, no? I’m just saying this isn’t a strictly woman thing @ben anderson . People want people that other people want. It’s why fat women don’t get taken out to dinner. If it doesn’t seem like other people want to bed her, she won’t be taken out.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Just to continue off this... men don’t seek validation from their homies/nikkas. We might ask for their opinion on a guh we’re interested in, like, “ what you think about ol guh”. *homie gives his rundown*. Our decision to pursue her isn’t tied up or based on our peers opinion of a guh unless we are looking to cuff and you hear word that ol guh is a sleeze, then we’ll proceed with caution(or at least we should). If my boy tells me a guh I’m eyeing is hit and I think she’s attractive as hell, guess what? I’m still about to holla.

I remember in high school I wasn’t getting any play until a cheerleader and track runner by the name of Chelsea( tall with a bubble, redbone, pretty face) started walking with me to lunch and shyt and sitting with me in Health class. Then all of a sudden the girls come flockin. Men don’t work like that.

Men see Ashanti as beautiful and gorgeous and want to be with her bc she just is. Not bc other men see her worth so we start noticing her too








Bc she’s fat

 

[No Homo]

OP aint lying..all my boys who are married say the same thing.

 

[Mac071415]

Boils down to women finding a dude they don't have to be committed to because he's already taken. So they'll scout and find a side piece knowing he won't persue it further is she breaks things off or vice versa.

 

[Cabbage Patch]

@StarGirl is only telling truth, why some of y'all fighting it?

 

[StarGirl]

@StarGirl in here fighting a losing battle

Lmfao I don’t know why I even bother arguing with you guys. Like a lamb in a flock of wolves.

 

[StarGirl]

I'll answer this as an older breh who has experienced a lot. Yes it does happen, but not NEARLY at the same level at all with regards to women and taken/married men. As much as women would hate to admit... this is way more of a female thing, then men. And fat women do get taken out to dinner, because men are more likely to own there distinct taste in women and say fukk everything else. (I said more likely, because generally we don't care as much about social acceptance)

There are just plain old gender differences with humans with regards to mating. Always has been, always will be

You had me up until you got here. They are an example but guys love fat women. Listen to me. You guys looooooove fat women. But society tells you they are less than. I would even say a majority of ethnic guys prefer fat women. So in front of your friends you say “nah man”. But you guys stay texting heart emojis at big fines. Just admit you guys also fall prey to social conditioning.

I can concede women do it more, but you’re not going to win this one.