Here's the inherent issue with acquiring Soto (and why I'd do it anyway): nobody is convinced that the team will spend the money to keep both Soto and Judge, especially when now we'll have this glaring hole at SS where we passed up every possible free agent there because we're waiting on Volpe. Now, I'm super bullish on Volpe and the Martian, but I'd trade them both for Soto, but I'm also in the extreme minority where I wouldn't be comfortable paying Judge 10/$360.
The names you mentioned are what the Yankees are lacking in comparison to some of these other teams. Atlanta got a homegrown core. The Mets even still have deGrom/Alonso/McNeil/Nimmo. The Dodgers have their guys they brought up, Astros too. The Yankees are reduced to just Judge and he's 30. If they can't assemble a group of players from their own system to build around, they're gonna have to spend an obscene amount of money to put out a competitive product and management has proven too many times they won't do it even though they can, so it's quite likely if Soto's a Yankee it'll just be him, Lemahieu and Aaron Hicks for the next 12 years together with Cole locked up too.