Nah lol heres the truth.
As a black dude who worked in the night life industry, has modeled for major companies, fukked chicks on sight without saying a word off physical appearance alone.
SOME black chicks usually do this if you are...attractive, in a universal sense. not "lame".
A dude who looks like dame dash, will get that comment less than a...chestnut or kodjoe. Because chestnut or kodjoe in their prime look like they can get anyone. So insecure (black)women will assume if you can get anyone, you'll go white. (The actual bad black women though dont do this, because they get it, and can attract anyone also)
Even some girls who were blatantly attracted to me, that I fukked, still said some shyt like that. Whereas there's dudes they wont fukk or tell them how "fine" they are to their face, that they wont say "you date white girls" to.
Lots of average looking dudes out here not knowing the feels of making bytches insecure. And thinking its some negative trait in you lol because in their reality, this doesnt happen.
Imma say this, and it might piss people off but its the fukking truth. Some people out there can only attract in their own racial pool, unless they really try hard to date out. And some girls guys come off like that.
Guarantee alot of coli members are like that, so some of the "militant" attitude is...involuntary anyway lol
Breaking the 4th wall. Sorry.