@Serious, a story that stuck with me from Gladwell's "Outliers".
Christopher Langan had one of the highest measured IQs in American history. He skipped multiple grades, got a perfect score on the SAT even while taking a nap partway through.. He taught himself advanced math, physics, philosophy, Latin, and Greek while in high school, spent most of his time in independent study cause he already knew everything in his classes. Didn't coast on his ability, literally studied all day every day because of his thirst for knowledge. Got a full ride to college. Got all A's for his first semester, but had trouble adjusting to college socially because he was from a poor rural family and grew up pretty isolated.
While he was going to university, his mother (who was poor as dirt) didn't send in the right financial info for the annual update on his financial aid package. His dad had already abandoned the family years earlier after a long pattern of abusive behavior. So Christopher lost his scholarship, solely due to his mother's paperwork lapse. He tried to go to the school counselor to get help, but they didn't help him. So he had to drop out of school before the year was over. Didn't even get credit for his second semester though he had already done most of the work and definitely would have aced the exams.
So he goes back home, and enrolls at the local state college, which is 13 miles from his house. He's working and going to school simultaneously, trying to make ends meet for his family. Halfway through the year, his car breaks down, and he doesn't have the money to repair it. He finds a neighbor who is willing to take him into town each day, but it's too late for his morning classes. So he asks his advisor if he can switch to the afternoon sections, due to this lack of transportation that makes it impossible to make the morning classes. His advisor denies it. He goes up to the dean. The dean looks at his transcript, sees he dropped out of his previous college, and tells him that he clearly hasn't learned his lesson and doesn't understand the sacrifices it takes if you want a college degree. Denies his appeal to transfer to afternoon classes. He is so upset that he's being forced basically to fail half his classes for the second time, through no fault of his own, and feels like the whole college is against him. Drops out of school and never goes back. Ends up working in manual labor for most of his life.
Literally one of the smartest people in the world, incredibly academically gifted, incredible work ethic, and
he never even finished two years of college due to circumstances that don't have jack shyt to do with how good a student he was.
Now here's a second story that's more personal to me. This is about a motherfukker who lived in my dorm when I went to college. He was smart, even for the standards of the school I went to he was above average. But he was a real piece of shyt. Arrogant, lazy, treated other people like dirt, no work ethic, and got drunk all the time. Talked a lot about his parents who were apparently both wealthy lawyers. He ended up being legendary on campus for the stupid-ass injuries he would get while drunk off his ass.
So at some point he tells us his backstory, and it turns out that back in high school he was pulling a lot of the same shyt, doing bad in class even though he was smart as hell. I think he had a 2.6 GPA or something. So his parents decide the problem is that he's "not being challenged enough", and they use their connections to their alma matter to get him enrolled in college early,
even though he has bad grades and hasn't even started his senior year yet, solely based off of his test scores. So he goes to college and acts even worse, by his second semester he's failing literally every class and his parents pull him out. They decide to send him abroad to a highly-regarded boarding school instead, and there they stay on his ass and he graduates with good grades. Because it's an international school and uses a different grading system, he's able to manipulate how his grades are reported and ends up submitting a higher GPA to the colleges than what he really got there. Combined with his test scores and his "inspirational story" of having turned his life around, he gets into the school we went to together. There he does okay for his first year, then falls into the same pattern again of just fukking around and getting drunk all the time. Fails out of school AGAIN. This is the third fukking time he's failed at school in four tries. His parents tried to pull strings to get the school's decision overturned, and the school ended up getting so fed up with their shyt that he literally got banned from campus. That was the last I heard of him.
Fast forward 15 years, and a few year ago I get the urge to look up some of my old classmates. I google his name and he has a whole fukking website. This guy who wasn't worth shyt when I knew him now has two degrees, the second one is a graduate degree from one of the better Ivy League schools. He owns his own business where he was a contractor for a major presidential campaign, and he's an instructor at a local college on the side.
I was looking at that shyt and just couldn't believe it. Like this guy wasn't worth shyt as a student, yet he got chance...after chance...after chance. If he was any other kid, he would have graduated high school without grades good enough for a four-year school, gone to community college, failed his classes, and that would be the end of the story. But because of his background, he got to suck at high school, fail at college, fail at college again, and then STILL get more chances to not just get degrees but get one from an institution at the top of the totem pole in America, and then get connected to both political and academic power.
I'm pretty disillusioned with the idea that American education is some sort of meritocracy. Yeah, it works out for a lot of kids. But who it works out for has a lot more to do with the position you're born into than the position you put yourself into. Of course there are exceptions, but those are the outliers, not the norm.