You didn't make an argument. Just a bunch of random insultsNo answer huh?
Video: Umar "Yeah, I Love Dem Strippers" Johnson chastising black folks in IR relationships
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1. I'm not a history scholar and never claimed I was.Go read "Brazil: Mixture Or Massacre, Genocide of a people" and stfu..........you trolls that try to push mixing need to crack open a history book and do research, you would know Miscegenation is an old trick in the book of an occupier and colonizer actually.............but you a scholar right?
2. I'm not pushing anything. I'm saying let people do what makes them happy. I've already mentioned I have a black wife and I've never really been attracted to white women.
3. You want me to be someone I'm not. You keep trying to misrepresent MY thoughts to make a point. I've already mentioned that I'm doing my part for the black community. What are you doing other than reading books and fearing the worst (which are both fine if you're actually doing something with it)?
According to her they were dating. Two people dated, had sex and it didn't work out. Happens every b. Stop being a drama queen.
Again. Having irresponsible sex is adverse to the cause of "the black family"
If that issue was as important to you as you say it is, then irresponsible sex wouldn't be something you are ok with.
We all know the answer to most of these issues... we just don't wanna face reality 
Believe that there is such thing as purely non-consequential casual sex and believe that procreation occurs in a vacuum that doesn't affect the community brehs
If all the Igbos in my local community married white women you best believe the next generation would be the death of my community (no more town hall meetings twice a month, no more visiting our members in times of need, no more helping to fund each other's school fees, no more promoting local businesses) They would want nothing to do with their heritage. It would only take 1 generation to destroy what we are building now
I've said it before and I'll say it again... If you are with a white man or a white woman, its because you want to be. I'm not going to call you evil... I just want you to own it and stop making excuses
Believe that there is such thing as purely non-consequential casual sex and believe that procreation occurs in a vacuum that doesn't affect the community brehs
If all the Igbos in my local community married white women you best believe the next generation would be the death of my community (no more town hall meetings twice a month, no more visiting our members in times of need, no more helping to fund each other's school fees, no more promoting local businesses) They would want nothing to do with their heritage. It would only take 1 generation to destroy what we are building now
I've said it before and I'll say it again... If you are with a white man or a white woman, its because you want to be. I'm not going to call you evil... I just want you to own it and stop making excuses
Yea if you want to judge him, then by all means do so but, to me that doesn't mean his message is any less true(or false). To me we get so caught up on whether people are perfect people that we miss the message. If you don't agree with what he's saying cool. He gives his reasons why he feels the way he does and, if you not feeling that logic that's ok.
However, for people to keep bringing this stripper thing up and using it to deflect from his message is not the right move imo.
If he was just out helping people. Funding community centers. Volunteering in youth programs, etc, etc. No one would care about his personal life. But being that his "message" is just a judgment of other people's personal lives and a directive on how they should live their lives than his behavior is integral to his message.
Why should I believe his message when he himself does not? So then that calls into question are his words genuine or does he have some ulterior motive?
A real leader leads by example, not by words.
16382114, member: 2696"]Again. Having irresponsible sex is adverse to the cause of "the black family"
If that issue was as important to you as you say it is, then irresponsible sex wouldn't be something you are ok with.[/QUOTE]
Irresponsible? What was irresponsible about 2 adults having sex. Seriously? He was going raw?
I have never heard him say he was against sex or sex outside of a relationship although you can have "irresponsible" within a relationship. And again she they were I'm a relationship so...I guess you'll have to clarify what was so irresponsible about the sex.
If that issue was as important to you as you say it is, then irresponsible sex wouldn't be something you are ok with.[/QUOTE]
Irresponsible? What was irresponsible about 2 adults having sex. Seriously? He was going raw?
I have never heard him say he was against sex or sex outside of a relationship although you can have "irresponsible" within a relationship. And again she they were I'm a relationship so...I guess you'll have to clarify what was so irresponsible about the sex.
Normally nothing.
What it can lead to however.. can easily be classified as irresponsible.
But i'm not going to put that on him, unless I hear a story about the stripper having his kid or him catching STDs. Until we hear that, we can't call him irresponsible.
But we can
at him tho. Especially when you are telling others how to live their life (which I happen to agree with his statement btw)
No birth control is 100%.
Casual sex leads to unwed children. Having sex with a woman in which you don't even know her profession is irresponsible as hell.
You absolutely can not make the argument that sex outside the race is detrimental to "the black family" but casual sex within the community is OK.
We all know the answer to most of these issues... we just don't wanna face reality
Believe that there is such thing as purely non-consequential casual sex and believe that procreation occurs in a vacuum that doesn't affect the community brehs
If all the Igbos in my local community married white women you best believe the next generation would be the death of my community (no more town hall meetings twice a month, no more visiting our members in times of need, no more helping to fund each other's school fees, no more promoting local businesses) They would want nothing to do with their heritage. It would only take 1 generation to destroy what we are building now
I've said it before and I'll say it again... If you are with a white man or a white woman, its because you want to be. I'm not going to call you evil... I just want you to own it and stop making excuses
I agree with the whole post. I never take his relationship advice seriously. The man promotes poligamy for goodness sake.Normally nothing.
What it can lead to however.. can easily be classified as irresponsible.
But i'm not going to put that on him, unless I hear a story about the stripper having his kid or him catching STDs. Until we hear that, we can't call him irresponsible.
But we can
But I do think a lot of what he says is on point. He doesn't have to be perfect for me to support him.Also the disapproval of dating out comes from the Pan-Africanism. People are all in their feelings like it's his original idea. It's the policy of the largest African movement of all time that's goal was to promote the improvement of its people. Keeping the devil out was always part of the agenda. I think they were on to something .
They were in a relationship. If you believe her story then believe the whole thing and stop cherry picking. Also he says he didn't know her profession AT FIRST. But he did know her profession while they were having sex and he accepted it. She says he always knew. Either way he knew.
Also you are talking about sex. He is talking marriage/sharing resources. Two different topics.
He's not for integration on any level. It crazy how much that bothers so many of ya'll.
Most people with unwed kids were in a "relationship"
And sex, marriage, and resources are intrinsically linked. Your thinking is exactly what leads to unwed kids. It's never "just sex"
His reason for being against integration is to promote the black family. Having casual sex is directly adverse to that idea. If his position was just "I don't like white people so don't lay with them" then that would be fine. But he uses this moral high ground of "the black family" to justify his disdain for white folks, and anybody who disagrees with him.
You don't like white folks, fine. But don't tell me it's because you care about the black family, while you are out doing EXACTLY what leads to broken families.
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