UPDATE PG 16 "I want to really get to know you before we get physical" = Toss azz in the Bushes ?

[Turbulent]

OP cool and he usually drop alot of real shyt he a real nikka

but at a grown ass man getting mad at this shyt

i mean cmon my nikka...these is games nikkas my age and under play

I respect the fact dude pretty much concedes he played himself from the first post.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

SMH I cant even read the responses. How dare you ask for advice about relationships on this forum?

DUDE POSTED NO PICS.

 

[Turbulent]

Really? Again I only read the first post and thats not what I got. He wanted sex, he paid for 3 dates, he put the move on her and she didn't go for it=bushes. Myself, I wouldn't have went back to his place if I had no intention on having sex but maybe since he wasn't pressing the issue during the first 3 dates she assumed it was safe for her to go back to his place.

naw, later on he explains it's not even that she wasn't ready for sex that bothered him. it's the fact that she started kissing on the couch and then switched it up. TS then told the girl in a nutshell that they can hang out but no more dates and she seems dissapointed.

that's the problem with most chicks in the courting process. it's not about how long they take to "put out" or whatever. it's the fact they feel entitled to being treated as a prize without putting in work. Dude even said he wasn't even thinking that hard about smashing and was just going with the flow. In a way, she's the one who made it about "getting p*ssy". Lots of women (not you particularly, if you already know this, props) need to learn how to provide value in the courting process. No one is saying you have to "give it up". What i'm saying is if you're not paying for dates, and you're not fukking (which by itself i still wouldn't consider that as you "doing something for me") then your convo better be OUT OF THIS WORLD cause frankly you're just laying back and enjoying yourself without bringing anything to the table at this point. I really don't think dude is saying she should fukk based on 3 dates. I don't think this is one of those threads.

And it doesn't even have to be money stuff. It could just be baking/cooking something for him, it could be getting him gloves cause whenever you walk with him you notice he has his hands in his pockets and seems cold. Just contribute somehow into building a bond. Cause if not, after dude realized he played himself, he will try to "recoup" how he can and dip.

 

[mcdivit85]

If the women pays sometimes and put forth similar effort that i'm putting forth, I don't mind waiting.

Yup. I think this suits most dudes.

Its one thing to be patient if the chick is contributing to the "dating" process. By paying for some of the dates. Buying dessert when you buy dinner. Paying for the snacks at the movie once you've paid for the tickets. Planning a cool date for the dude she's "taking her time with."

That shows that she's interested AND wants to show you that she is capable of offering much more than the dangled carrot, which is sex. Not only that, but men can accept and believe that she's "taking her time" without an ulterior motive.

But on the other hand, if the chick is just sitting back receiving meals, entertainment and attention without any reciprocation on her end, that dudes are going to assume she's up to something. And then, in that case, most dudes will just drop her from potential "relationship" category down to jumpoff. At that point, dudes just start going for the jugular...as they should.

Only women without real tangibles think sex is their barganing chip. A woman who has value knows that its everything else that makes a dude truly feel her.

Peace

 

[BillBanneker]

This is not rocket science breh..... She sees you as boyfriend material and you see her as a busted face but a nice body. Both of you are playing your roles. She wants something serious and you want the ass. Are you willing to fake it to make it? If not tell her your intentions if she is down, handle that, if not charge it to the game

 

[Stuntone]

A lot of good points here I must say.

Thing is, I don't think she's trying to play me or anything. She's just analyzing her past and trying to apply what she thinks would be the best method to make us work out long term. Like I said, we're both damn near 30 and for me, trying out shyt at 30 and not really knowing what you're doing, is just a turn off. I know she really likes me. That's why I take a lot of responsibility in this, I shouldve have been just chilling, instead of dating. But when I think about details, she was holding my hand in the car and walking to my apt. I think it bothers most men when women words and action don't match up.

Anyway, I aint tripping tho. Whatever happens, happens. I have options, so I'm good.

 

[mcdivit85]

i think i got it! after reading countless posts about women on this board, i finally know what the average coli male wants from a woman:

a Brazilian fitness model who is black with natural curly hair but looks like a cac with a big ass and titties who is a virgin but is freaky and will fukk on the first date. she also shouldn't have any children out of wedlock, however, the coli male will NEVER marry her. the coli male also thinks that it's disgusting if she doesn't want to have children . she should be wifey material that can work full time, come home and cook, clean, fukk and shut the fukk up while the coli male watches the game or plays GTA5. However, she should also be a ride or die chick that will overlook the coli male's infidelity and disrespect and stick around to continue to supply an endless stream of unconditional love. she should be independent but dependent on the coli male for everything, just don't ask for money. she will be expected to sign a prenup (no matter how broke the coli male is), in the highly unlikely chance that the coli male considers her for marriage. she must agree to contribute 100% of her time, energy, financial resources, and love to the marriage. but if the marriage goes south for any reason, she leaves with the shirt on her back (and not even that, if the coli male bought it). she must accept that PAWGn is just a part of being a man, so she must not question or try to prevent it. she must turn a blind eye. while the coli male is out with jumpoffs, she must ignore all feelings of disrespect and loneliness and keep the puss on a tight lockdown and totally ignore any other male advances, especially if the male is a better fit for her. she must be totally content with being a girlfriend for 20 years while actually being a wife 100%. if they have kids together, the coli male will be a great and attentive father, as long as they are together. if they ever break up for whatever reason, she will be expected to take whatever money is given to her by the coli male and at whatever interval he feels comfortable giving it to her. child support and alimony is prohibited. she must also NEVER EVER bring another male around the coli male's child and never pursue another relationship that would result in a new male being around his child. no matter what her future relationship status is, the puss must ALWAYS be available to the coli male. no questions. she must also accept her status as being a worthless ass single mother who will never amount to anything but being a jumpoff to a childless, six figure salary earning, single, globe trotting, 7 year old Audi financing, playboy mollywatr executive who is able to rack up 10,000 posts in 2 months on the coli while maintaining a chiseled body coli male.

that about sums it up, right?

That ether tho...not that it relates to this particular OP and/or post.

Peace

 

[Steve Piffler]

That ether tho...not that it relates to this particular OP and/or post.

Peace

nope. not directed at anyone in particular. just the coli pimps as a collective....

 

[Data-Hawk]

But they don't have problem popping out kids doe

 

[Miggs]

You young cats need to get to seminars on how to deal with women...
If you trying to see where it can go with this woman in a relationship the 3 dates isnt necessarily a bad look as long as shes offering NEXT time out and you feel that interest is being reciprocated...tbh i wouldnt be taking ANY chick out to dinner dates and movies first few times regardless what the face and ass look like....You cats always get suckered into coming out ya pockets cuz a chick look halfway decent
I dont understand why dudes have problems setting ground rules before you go out....

 

[Slaimon Khan Shah]

Ayo @Slaimon
I need your opinion on this fam

I'm not %100 sure whats going on in this thread. It doesn't sound righteous though.

 

[Will Ross]

She does not like you if she did u would have smashed

 

[Soundbwoy]

she got pointy elbows breh

 

[Remote]

she got pointy elbows breh

 

[Soundbwoy]