So OP is 5'8, 40, a bussy breh, and diabetic
Unless you're under say 5'6, most women do not care about height
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Men cannot make themselves taller
You work with what you can change, and accept what you can't. Height has not stopped many men from attracting women. If you let your height do that, then the fault stands with you, because plenty of other men have overcome their small height being a hindrance.
I don't disagree on this in general, but comparing height to body positivity isn't a good argument.
My mistake, I must not have made my point clear. I am pointing out that the whole body positivity movement, which means accepting your body no matter the form it is in, does not apply to men. Which also includes being judged by our height. So, knowing that you work on what you can as a man. Complaints about our bodies not meeting some standard (which includes height) will not fly, because no one cares about that when it comes to men.
Again, work with what you can fix, accept what you can't. Just don't expect the rest of the world to have sympathy for you, because you are short.
This is just elongating what you said. Your point was already clear. My point still stands. A woman's body can be changed. A man's height cannot.
Yes, because you are still here complaining about how unfair it is. You are man, life is unfair, you work with what you have. Your complaints will not be cared about, you will not be coddled for it over this issue.
Expressing something that everyone one knows is not easy to do (though with money, some men have changed their height). While I am pointing out you accept what it is, and fix what you can. You will not be given the same consideration, no matter if you can control it or not, that women will receive.
Why are you directly addressing me when I'm speaking on a general concept for men at large?
Again, a woman can change her body, a man cannot change his height. They are not the same. I'm happy to keep going in this circle.
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Women everywhere like tall men, and that's regardless of race
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If all things are equal, the dude that's 6'0 would pull more than the dude that's 5'7.
Me personally, I'm 5'8 and wouldn't date a woman that's shorter than 5'5. Joints be a smooth 4'11 with a dude that's 6'2, like nĆgga what
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. If all things are equal, the dude that's 6'0 would pull more than the dude that's 5'7
. Me personally, I'm 5'8 and wouldn't date a woman that's shorter than 5'5. Joints be a smooth 4'11 with a dude that's 6'2, like nĆgga what
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murksiderock
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The bolded is what really matters and it often isn't height. Different things about you jump out to women besides height...
I was 14 when I was first told that I have a "walk" on me, and just this past week, one chick at work, grabbed up two other chicks, and said I walk like I know I'm that nikka; one of the other women was like "yeah he do". I'm 35, this is over 20 years I've been hearing this...
I've told guys on here in the past, I've pretty much always been one of, if not THE, most noticeable man in a room, even if I'm standing still. I think it helps that I'm attractive obviously, but I've also been told that I have a general "aura" or "vibe" or magnetism about myself that draws attention towards me. I would say none of this is intentional and is 100% natural, because I never had any self-esteem issues around my height (5'7). I'll take it further and say unless I'm standing next to a super tall dude, most times I probably have never noticed the height, and I'd say most women don't either because I'm taller than most women...
Your mind doesn't always make that connection and consciously think "this guy taller than me", unless you're obsessed with height the way this board is
my experience says most women arent obsessed with height...Everyone has a preference, if you ask a woman they generally want a man taller than them but the average woman would date a man her height or slightly shorter if it was negligible (like an inch or two); a smaller percentage of women would date a man several inches shorter and you see this from time to time in the real world. Women are terrible at eye measurements, if a woman tells you she prefers a man who is "6 feet" and you ask her to pick the 6 foot man out the lineup, she's more likely to pick the 5'10 or 6'3 guy, than the guy who is actually 6' or 6'1. The women who are vocal about height, generally can't accurately assess it----->they just want a man who is taller than them...
There have been probably a dozen occasions in my life where a woman has called me tall
it doesnāt happen alot, I'm 35, but it has happened. And these not 4'11 women who've said this. It's just "height" or "tall" are buzz words, it's a catch all, and it's application in reality just means, if you're a woman, "taller than me", and even most women then STILL would date the same height or slightly shorter. Its not a hard line...I'm a brother who has always had success with women my entire life. I don't see it often with men either, but to the extent people actually care, I'd say men care more about male height in real life, than women. You'll hear 2-3x as many men talking about height as something that matters before you hear it from a woman...
Case in point and back to your bolded, I think this site CLEARLY demonstrates daily that the average man undervalues the scope of attraction and what "stands out" to women...
This is what I'm talking about, you consider being short a disadvantage. I don't think most people feel this way, most women don't look at it this way...
It's clear most people live most of their lines in the internet shell, maybe not yourself per se. But there's no way I can believe mf's really have frequent interactions with women in the real world, over the duration of their lives, and believe being short is a "disadvantage". Its the same thing in if a guy was overweight, I think its a disadvantage to people obsessed with the topic...
Most people not giving enough of a fukk to be obsessed with this shyt
...This basically it in a nutshell!
Most women have a type/preference of a "tall" man but "tall" isn't objective, it looks different to different people and these women really just mean "taller than me". The loud, voracious women in online circles, many of them, it just sounds good to say...
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murksiderock
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This is true too
...Facial features and personality always matter to women more. Don't no woman want no ugly, swagless nikka just because he 6'3
...This isn't true and I've disproved this in my own life and seen it disproven with many other nikkas in the real worldWomen everywhere like tall men, and that's regardless of race
If all things are equal, the dude that's 6'0 would pull more than the dude that's 5'7
