Life is filled with relationship failures, you rebuild, learn, and move on, but not if you're Umar or any pro-Black advocates. They need to live perfect lives for the rest of us to even consider listening, while our own families and friends are products of and/or have experienced failed relationships
Disingenuous again. Here is what YOU wrote a few posts above.
You can't move the goalposts while people are paying attention.
I said that Umar isn't married to any of the mother(s) of his children. He smartly shields his children from the spotlight as well as his personal business. I've gathered info just from his videos that he has 2 children with 2 women and was never married to either of them. Neither of the children live in his household either, from what I've gathered.
If this is the truth, it certainly contradicts his themes and lectures about promoting strong Black families.
This is a bigger red flag that the one he is raising about Shannon Sharpe. Sharpe doesn't promote himself as anything other than a football player and show host.
1)My exact quote from the previous post is
I've gathered info just from his videos that he has 2 children with 2 women and was never married to either of them
2) A man who bases his lecture circuit on Black family & Black male role models for Black boys and who is not raising his own children in his household certainly raises red flags.
3) No, but the nuclear family is the basis for society..any society. Dr. Johnson knows this better than either of us, yet he has at least two illegitimate children. Neither of the children live with him. Even he would tel you that this isn't an ideal situation.
1)I will bookmark this page and find the videos where he mentioned the existence of his children and the existence of their mothers. Believe it was a BC video after the stripper story. I will eventually find it and post it though.
2)Even Umar would say that his situation is not the ideal one. He's a very well educated man. He's trained in field that can help young men, HOWEVER he's made a series of unwise life choices. These choices contradict his points about strong Black families. He made the choice to create children with women that he wasn't married to. If there's anything that's fractured the Black family unit, it's people deciding to do this.
Again, you talmbowt his kids was not for information purposes but to try to make a larger argument via a series of reaches and reckless speculation, all while not knowing anything about why his relationship failed
The levels that you reached in order to try to discredit him is shameful. Thus why I needed to point out the absurdity of you browsing videos of him trying to do good for Black folks, to get dirt because he said Black people should marry Black people
You went as far as questioning whether a father not raising his kids in his home is a good role model. Furthermore, you saying having a baby mother / baby daddy are legit red flags and are examples of "unwise life choices," despite not knowing why relationship didn't work out. Now imagine the public reaction if some media outlet made such statements
When are you going to dissect his teachings/ideology the same way you're doing now with the kids stuff, that is readily available and doesn't command you to speculate and browse hours of videos for vague references?
We weren't discussing his ideology. We were discussing someone's credibilty on Black families and ya breh Umar is lackin. Him discussing marriage and Black families is the equivalent of Harvey Weinstein discussing sexual harrassment in Hollywood. They both can present themselves as experts with an opinion, doesn't mean the rest of us will bend over backwards to hear them.
Your comfort with speculating about his personal life, while making the choice to be willfully ignorant about his ideology, is a red flag about your motivations to undermine Dr. Johnson
