Tyler The Creator "Like Him"

Richard Glidewell

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I see where you're coming from, but that doesn't explain the men who realize "this woman is crazy, I can't let my child(ren) be left alone with her" and they take their kids and dip.

I know a woman where that was her exact scenario. She's close with her dad even though he has flaws(got caught up in the system :francis: ) because he made his daughter a priority. He knew what he'd be setting her up for if he left her alone with her mom.

If you married the wrong person, your child should not have to bear the brunt of their resentments and toxicity. You're choosing your peace over your child's if you dip instead of constantly making efforts to get your child to a safe place. Your child didn't have a say in who their mother or father would be. You owe it to them to keep them safe as one half of the reason they're even here(something they couldn't have even asked for).

Two adults weren't ready to be parents and were not compatible with each other. An innocent child should not have to pay the price of their parents failures.
If logic were the rule then it would be a simple as that. By default any woman is keeping the kids and unless she monstrously negligent the law will back her 100 percent. And that's best case scenario in the present day not accounting for the past
 

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From day one, I've had a peculiar life, man. It's took decades to recover from that situation. I legit blacked it out because I was so young, then when I saw him again it all came back and I struggled for a long time internally.

He was abusive and a barber. So my bearings weren't typical. I was beat with the thick leather strap. For a whim, for spilling milk, because siblings did something wrong and "I let it happen".

It goes on and on, but to the point of the thread. Even though I despise him, forgiveness and understanding are essential. This song is some of Tyler's best work, especially coming from someone slightly above his age bracket that's been a fan since b*stard. Strength doesn't exist without vulnerability.
 

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If logic were the rule then it would be a simple as that. By default any woman is keeping the kids and unless she monstrously negligent the law will back her 100 percent. And that's best case scenario in the present day not accounting for the past
It doesn't matter if you think you'll lose.

It matters that you fought. That you cared enough even if you knew you had a slim chance of winning.

If a brolic ngga insulted your whole family and slapped your wife’s ass, you'd still square up or try to get some kind of revenge. You don't let that shyt slide because those people are important to you.
 

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I'm incredibly thankful I have a strong father in my life. And had a strong grandfather as well.

My mother cheated on my dad, tried to ruin his life with domestic violence accusations and when that didn't work, moved me and my siblings away when my dad was away for a few days, then tried to get me and my siblings to hate him.

I went back to live with him and my mother hated me for it. Our relationship has never been the same.
 

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It doesn't matter if you think you'll lose.

It matters that you fought. That you cared enough even if you knew you had a slim chance of winning.

If a brolic ngga insulted your whole family and slapped your wife’s ass, you'd still square up or try to get some kind of revenge. You don't let that shyt slide because those people are important to you.
I don't disagree, but I dont want not one person going into a proceeding with their hopes riding so high that a defeat would crush them. Again, unless their are substantial allegations or she exhibits neglect to a certain degree to where they have to give brehs are going to lose outright or be prepared for the longest battle of most people's lives.......and that's if an attorney can be afforded to give you the best chance
 

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From day one, I've had a peculiar life, man. It's took decades to recover from that situation. I legit blacked it out because I was so young, then when I saw him again it all came back and I struggled for a long time internally.

He was abusive and a barber. So my bearings weren't typical. I was beat with the thick leather strap. For a whim, for spilling milk, because siblings did something wrong and "I let it happen".

It goes on and on, but to the point of the thread. Even though I despise him, forgiveness and understanding are essential. This song is some of Tyler's best work, especially coming from someone slightly above his age bracket that's been a fan since b*stard. Strength doesn't exist without vulnerability.
"Check on your strong friend, they are usually the ones bleeding in silence"
 
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