Do you think your father taught you how NOT to be a husband and father?Put it like this, my grandfather is the type of man I aspire to be as oppose to my birth father.
But hey, he at least gets to see his grandson.
Do you think your father taught you how NOT to be a husband and father?Put it like this, my grandfather is the type of man I aspire to be as oppose to my birth father.
But hey, he at least gets to see his grandson.
Damn breh.......I guess a lucked out in that way because I was grown man size at 13....... any bum ass nikka she brought around was on they best behaviors and trying to be my friend at all times
Edit........ ain't NO fukkING WAY THIS nikka STILL FREE....... OUR LIVING WORRY FREE......... he told on himself and eeeeeeverbody
Do you think your father taught you how NOT to be a husband and father?
I don't hate her.......I give her all the grace and then some that you could ask of a saint let alone a normal man/son.......if I could go back and undo myself to give her a better chance at life I wouldn't hesitate but in my mind and in my heart I know she would make my sacrifice useless..........I am well adjusted extension...... successful...... respectable...... but I had to choose because it was never nurtured.........i grew up fighting the temper my father's people told me i had and it's a blessing they did because i understood why the anger and intrusive thoughts were there........ whyi could let them win...... and why i had to completely turn my back to people in things because ihad allthe makings of a TV movie monster until iwas 20.... succeeding in spite of real and construed roads blocks makes me feel so good...... it's the fuel that powers me these days.......Not only can Tyler relate to it, A lot of posters on here can too. That’s where the hatred of women comes from on here,
I’ll never forget that thread where a lot of posters on here was talking about their dislikes of their mothers because of how they treated their fathers. I wish I could find that thread
Brethren........ there have been a minimum of 4 men my mother convinced might be my father......... after the blood test a decade plus later....... one of them STILL after being shown a blood test that he wasn't........ wants a blood test....... that's one more thing to boost me....... I turned out so well he can not accept I am not his son......... or is it that my mother did such a job in his mind that he is still broken....I can also name at least two men in my personal life where this happened to where they wanted to be a father but couldn't because of their ex wife.
Great song and since people are sharing, I'll give you one.
My father was a drug addict, con artist, and Vietnam vet. But he loves his kids. He just didn't know how to deal with me.
When I was 7, he attempted to murder my stepmother for embezzling money from him. He ripped her leg off and threw it into the Doberman kennel. I watched the cops kill my dogs and take my dade to prison. For the third time.
It drove me to suicidal thoughts. Drove me to be the Muslim I am today. I was constantly abused and had the shyt beat out of me.
Even to this day, on the outside, he lives a delusion that he should be forgiven.
And I only forgive because of God.
Black fatherhood can be so hard. But nothing is too hard. And while I commend his mom and love the track, I think that more dads should do better. Like, why you leave me? Even when it was hard, you still gave up?
I have a 2 year old with a woman that never loved me. And I say that as a reflection on myself. My baby mom was difficult and I have a thread on her about it. But if it means everything to the child, not the adult, then fukking be there. Even if it's a whisper. Harry Potter had owls.
I can't imagine ever giving up but I definitely understand.
When I was 7, he attempted to murder my stepmother for embezzling money from him. He ripped her leg off and threw it into the Doberman kennel. I watched the cops kill my dogs and take my dade to prison. For the third time.
I see where you're coming from, but that doesn't explain the men who realize "this woman is crazy, I can't let my child(ren) be left alone with her" and they take their kids and dip.The story of a lot of misdirected angry skin folk....... you wouldn't believe how many times I have asked a simple question and you could literally see the mind break and tears start to form......... dude will see how they mom's act...... how they mom's treated them growing up....... how often times mom's was sabotaging them...... not accidently....... not occasionally........ but was the active opps on a daily......... if you know this shyt about your mom, experienced these things at the hand of your mom, how you mad at your dad for not suffering through that? I have lost friend because I fukked up their image of their mom....... they're are plenty of ain't shyt dad's but not all and that's the point I guess..... know your people