Let me break it down for you because there seems to be a disconnect in how men handle even the slightest form of rejection
If you’re thinking it goes from a polite no to straight harassment/violence, usually no. But once the realization sets in that the woman is really not going to relent, no matter his mouth piece, game etc, then the harassment/violence starts
Yes, I’ve rejected men nice and respectfully yet it still ended with them getting physical with me or throwing things at me. No way in hell should a rejection end in physical harm.