Turning hoes into husbands?

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obviously its not quality to you, if you just give it to any dude you "feel a spark with", regardless of being in a relationship with

like i said have that mindset don't cry when your 35 on pof wondering where all the good men are
You take one isolated incident and all of a sudden I'm just passing out the cookies to the neighborhood :bryan:. Sorry if I like sex and I want it whether I'm in a relationship or not. I take my time and my person seriously and if I like a guy enough he gets that, if not then :camby: but I don't treat sex like a prize and I don't put my p*ssy on a pedestal.
 

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You take one isolated incident and all of a sudden I'm just passing out the cookies to the neighborhood :bryan:. Sorry if I like sex and I want it whether I'm in a relationship or not. I take my time and my person seriously and if I like a guy enough he gets that, if not then :camby: but I don't treat sex like a prize and I don't put my p*ssy on a pedestal.


I don't know your life all i can see is what you post.


like i said your life have that mindset, nothing wrong with liking sex or having sex whenever you want, but don't cry when you end up with bottom of the barrel men.

better create that pof profile now it'll be up for years
 

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I don't know your life all i can see is what you post.


like i said your life have that mindset, nothing wrong with liking sex or having sex whenever you want, but don't cry when you end up with bottom of the barrel men.

better create that pof profile now it'll be up for years
The fact you think I'll get a bottom of a barrel man because apparently my only worth is how much sex I have and when I have not and NOT anything else about me tells me a lot about you.
 
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Y'all really think women going "Girl he been with every woman on the block! You got a good pick.":salute:

Depending on the environment.I've been in some places where it's looked at as a positive.

Not for forming a relationship, but strictly for sexual purposes.


Some females are just like guys.At times,they want convenient/easily disposable penis just like men want some convenient/easily disposable(Unless she has that killer bombay) ussy.

Just so happens that promiscuous men/women tend to fit that criteria more than most.

They don't really bring anything of value into the relationship, so they're used to playing the game.A fukk and a chuck won't really hurt their feelings.They're accustomed to it.

When you find something of value, you treat it a lil more precious.You wanna take your time and "do it the right way".


That's why a lot of "good guys" have a hard time getting laid by promiscuous women.If a female senses value in a man(IN a man, not his earthly attachments..morals..principles etc), it's hard for her to stay in "promiscuous mode".A lot of females will only give you what you give them.As a man, if you wanna get a promiscuous female to have nasty porno sex with you, you have to be nasty and promiscuous yourself.

And that's mostly all it is nowadays.A bunch of promiscuous men/ women getting together and mutually exploiting each other.If you throw a sincere heart in there, it's going to get ripped apart.That's what happened to a lot of so called "good guys".Gave their heart to a promiscuous woman and it ended up turning them into Tommy Sotomayor.


But yeah, I've seen it.I have a brother who's a stone cold playa.I had a eureka moment when I was dating this one chick back in the day.She made a statement about my brother that really stuck with me....it was a real life:ohhh:moment..."Your brother is the type of guy that you just have fun with, but don't take serious"

I'm thinking "why even entertain a guy that you don't take serious?" but I was too gullible to really digest it at the time.

It was basically the female version of "Yeah she's a ho, but i'll fukk"

She kinda exposed herself by making that statement, to:mjpls:
 

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The fact you think I'll get a bottom of a barrel man because apparently my only worth is how much sex I have and when I have not and NOT anything else about me tells me a lot about you.

and what does it tell you?

Considering I'm actually trying to help a black woman out, but you know go ahead.

I mean your dating a great quality man now right
:troll:
 

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Depending on the environment.I've been in some places where it's looked at as a positive.

Not for forming a relationship, but strictly for sexual purposes.


Some females are just like guys.At times,they want convenient/easily disposable penis just like men want some convenient/easily disposable(Unless she has that killer bombay) ussy.

Just so happens that promiscuous men/women tend to fit that criteria more than most.

They don't really bring anything of value into the relationship, so they're used to playing the game.A fukk and a chuck won't really hurt their feelings.They're accustomed to it.

When you find something of value, you treat it a lil more precious.You wanna take your time and "do it the right way".


That's why a lot of "good guys" have a hard time getting laid by promiscuous women.If a female senses value in a man(IN a man, not his earthly attachments..morals..principles etc), it's hard for her to stay in "promiscuous mode".A lot of females will only give you what you give them.As a man, if you wanna get a promiscuous female to have nasty porno sex with you, you have to be nasty and promiscuous yourself.

And that's mostly all it is nowadays.A bunch of promiscuous men/ women getting together and mutually exploiting each other.If you throw a sincere heart in there, it's going to get ripped apart.That's what happened to a lot of so called "good guys".Gave their heart to a promiscuous woman and it ended up turning them into Tommy Sotomayor.


But yeah, I've seen it.I have a brother who's a stone cold playa.I had a eureka moment when I was dating this one chick back in the day.She made a statement about my brother that really stuck with me....it was a real life:ohhh:moment..."Your brother is the type of guy that you just have fun with, but don't take serious"

I'm thinking "why even entertain a guy that you don't take serious?" but I was too gullible to really digest it at the time.

It was basically the female version of "Yeah she's a ho, but i'll fukk"

She kinda exposed herself by making that statement, to:mjpls:

5 star posting breh :salute:
 

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and what does it tell you?

Considering I'm actually trying to help a black woman out, but you know go ahead.

I mean your dating a great quality man now right
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How are you trying to help me out? You told me I wouldn't get married and that I'm basically a cumbucket? But if you must know, I've decided to NOT have sex while I'm not in a relationship awhile ago.
 

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How are you trying to help me out? You told me I wouldn't get married and that I'm basically a cumbucket? But if you must know, I've decided to NOT have sex while I'm not in a relationship awhile ago.

:usure:
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/do-easy-girls-make-it-hard-for-good-girls.144749/page-13#post-6340327


I never used the word cumbucket, I'm trying to help you out on how a black woman should carry herself. Quality attracts quality. Why would a quality man want to commit to you, when treyvathian was in your vagina without commitment?
 

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:usure:
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/do-easy-girls-make-it-hard-for-good-girls.144749/page-13#post-6340327


I never used the word cumbucket, I'm trying to help you out on how a black woman should carry herself. Quality attracts quality. Why would a quality man want to commit to you, when treyvathian was in your vagina without commitment?
Because I always thought a man would commit to me because we connect on a lot of levels, not because of my sexual practice/history. I know for a fact that I'm worth more than my vagina, so it shouldn't matter what I do with it as long as I'm not letting every single man get it.
 

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Because I always thought a man would commit to me because we connect on a lot of levels, not because of my sexual practice/history.

:snoop:

never heard of the saying "wifey material"?

why do you think some hot girls out there but who are known ratchets remain single and just continue get ran through?
 

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Because they get ran through but I don't. Plus I'm not a known ratchet so that helps as well.

if you went to a amusement park and everyone in front of you got in for free, but when it was your turn they said nah you have to pay how would you feel?

if your sleeping with every treyvathian, javon and lefranklin and they didn't have to do anything then how can you expect Matthew from It department with his certs to pay with commitment and being exclusive and not saying :damn: but treyvathian javona nd lefranklin got it for free
 
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