Turning hoes into husbands?

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Why should I even care anymore though? No outstanding gentlemen are looking my way simply because of my skin color:to:

No matter what I do, I just can't escape the baby momma lifestyle that was always destined for the undesirable black woman :to:
 

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Why should I even care anymore though? No outstanding gentlemen are looking my way simply because of my skin color:to:

No matter what I do, I just can't escape the baby momma lifestyle that was always destined for the undesirable black woman :to:

Someone said that to you for real?!
 

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Why should I even care anymore though? No outstanding gentlemen are looking my way simply because of my skin color:to:

No matter what I do, I just can't escape the baby momma lifestyle that was always destined for the undesirable black woman :to:


I need a man's opinion on this topic. So to make a long story short, my friends basically told me I was making it hard for girls like her (who want a commitment) because I want sex from this guy. (I do want to point out, however, that I'm nowhere near easy. It's just I'm really attracted to this guy and instead of waiting around for dates and ish, I wanna cut the bs and skip right to it. Again I don't do this with every guy I meet, actually this would be the first time but I digress.)

So, from a man's perspective, do you think this is true? Honestly, I don't want to trust a woman's perspective because we tend to think with more emotion than logic, no offense to the ladies or myself.

:patrice:
 

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We met a month prior before we had sex

I need a man's opinion on this topic. So to make a long story short, my friends basically told me I was making it hard for girls like her (who want a commitment) because I want sex from this guy. (I do want to point out, however, that I'm nowhere near easy. It's just I'm really attracted to this guy and instead of waiting around for dates and ish, I wanna cut the bs and skip right to it. Again I don't do this with every guy I meet, actually this would be the first time but I digress.)

So, from a man's perspective, do you think this is true? Honestly, I don't want to trust a woman's perspective because we tend to think with more emotion than logic, no offense to the ladies or myself.

:patrice:
 

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Never did I say it was our first time meeting :bryan: We talked a month prior, I realized I didn't want a relationship from him but just sex. Now I can't be a grown woman consenting to sex with another man?

you can you can do whatever you want
but again how do you expect a quality guy if your selling your goods out like that

why would a man commit to you, get down on one knee and walk down the aisle knowing you gave it up to a guy you weren't even in a relationship with
 

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Never did I say it was our first time meeting :bryan: We talked a month prior, I realized I didn't want a relationship from him but just sex. Now I can't be a grown woman consenting to sex with another man?
Love/relationships/feelings aren't scientific. You have to do what you feel is best for you.

I know of people who have been in LT relationships/have gotten married after meeting on some one night stand shyt. Seriously, you don't know. Not to say that's always the case, but not to say it never is either.
 

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you can you can do whatever you want
but again how do you expect a quality guy if your selling your goods out like that

why would a man commit to you, get down on one knee and walk down the aisle knowing you gave it up to a guy you weren't even in a relationship with
Ain't nobody selling their "quality" goods :bryan: sorry I don't put sex on a pedestal like most.
 

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Ain't nobody selling their "quality" goods :bryan: sorry I don't put sex on a pedestal like most.

obviously its not quality to you, if you just give it to any dude you "feel a spark with", regardless of being in a relationship with

like i said have that mindset don't cry when your 35 on pof wondering where all the good men are




Nobody wants to treat somebody else’s whore like a princess. If a store is giving away free milk to every one else, and then tries to charge you full price, would you pay it? Could you walk to your car after purchasing milk, and see all the people who got free milk smirking at you for being a sucker because they got the same enjoyment out of the same milk for free? Simply put, a girl puts a price on her vagina, why outbid it? You wouldn’t pay above sticker price for a new car, would you?
 
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