You can avoid being ruptured into an agenda without having to downplay and act like these people don't exist.It's not about brushing off, it's about ensuring that you aren't being ruptured into an agenda
Jesus Christ black men are the only demographic you are allowed to say these types of fukked up shyt to. And part of it is because too many black men are afraid to call it out and have been conditioned to believe that we deserve it on some level.
No one is saying that everybody in real life is like this, but there is NO PROBLEM in calling attention to this. At the very least, report accounts like that.