Topic for the grown folk: Keeping the peace in your household

Schmoove

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Ladies and Brethren in marriages or serious relationships, I have a question.

What are some things you do to keep the peace in your household or relationship? What do you do to minimize or squash disagreements and/or arguments?
 

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This usually does the job
 

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fukk it, I'll say it. It's not possible with new age black women. And if you do make the effort to keep peace, you'll have to sacrifice a piece of who you are just to even have a remote chance. But it's never enough man
 

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When ur living w a chick ur dating...she will find a reason to nag/argue about virtually anything ....I have a serious argument over where were eating dinner/what were going to eat at least three times a week no lie

N the funny shyt is when I decide on sumthin ...she always wants sumthin else :mindblown: I'm
Like bytch y didn't u just say what u wanted in the first fukkin place :snoop: help me brehs....u kno ur life has hit a lull when ur relationship arguments r over remedial shyt like laundry, dinner, and dishes
 

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fukk it, I'll say it. It's not possible with new age black women. And if you do make the effort to keep peace, you'll have to sacrifice a piece of who you are just to even have a remote chance. But it's never enough man

Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight, because this is a problem specifically affecting black men.

Y'all nikkas c00n when c00ning ain't even necessary.
 

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SIMPLE. DON'T ARGUE WITH HER. YOU NOT GONNA MAKE HER SEE YOUR WAY THROUGH THE ARGUMENT. IT'S A WASTE OF TIME. IF YOU BOTH CAN'T COME TO THE TABLE AND DISCUSS WITHOUT BEING CHILDISH THEN YOU MIGHT NOT BE MADE FOR EACH OTHER.
 

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Sometimes cooler heads prevail. Take a few mins to calm down then revisit the topic to clarify it and straighten it out as best as possible

AFTER THAT















MAKE UP SEX :thumbsup:
 

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Pick your battles and only argue if it's ABSOLUTELY necessary. Don't do the back n fourth shyt.

My lady knows that if she raises her voice, I turn in the other direction and walk out of the room in mid sentence. She can come talk to me when she calms her ass down. Truth be told,, that shyt gets her even more heated lol

Even the ancients knew that women are logically lopsided and crazy as bat shyt and are wrong 90% of the time. Men run the world, so basque in that fact. If you find them acting out, admit you're wrong and move on. It's easier.
 

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Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight, because this is a problem specifically affecting black men.

Y'all nikkas c00n when c00ning ain't even necessary.

Well I'm a black man who's dated and married black women and these are my experiences. Not speaking on anyone elses. I live here in DC and the complaints are all the same. Could be the peeps I hang with or it could be an epidemic. :ehh:
 

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Do what she says:mjpls:

real talk.

just do what she says and do what u want on the low.

and make sure u got ur responsibilities split the way you like it. bills, chores, etc.

when its ur wife and u wanna keep her u gotta do what she says.

wife's the boss :manny:

get rid of the ego too. keep that for when u out with ur boys or on the-coli.
 
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