When you take care of another man’s kid, you’re basically accepting that you will never come first, second, third or fourth…. Youre gonna be an afterthought for the rest of your days… you’re gonna be emotional support for the mother, a wallet for the kids and a resource… you’re gonna go to work and bust your ass to support a kid who might not even respect you all while you risk having your woman cheating on you with her kids REAL father (if he’s still in the picture)
No thanks
Of course there are exceptions to this, but it plays out this way in many cases more than you think