When love and hip hop and the real housewives show got popular 10 + years ago I thought it was just online bird points, but slowly but surely in real life I've noticed the change for the next few years.
It's women working at Burger King having the same dating expectations as they see some chick on tv have.
Some chick I know that don't got shyt going on said that you must be a baller to get with her and I'm like you don't have shyt going on how you saying that?
Apparently (to my limited knowledge) it’s a term meant for a kept woman. A euphemism for “sugar baby”, but others claim it’s where a woman lives a stress free life, with or without a man funding it.What exactly is a “soft life”? I’m not up on the trendy social media jargon.
Definitely! This is another accountability dodging banger that these type of women are going to be quoting all summer. But the same logic applies...they chose the man that put them in the situation they're in...Lol funny, cacs and crehhitos complain constantly about their women using them and cheating on them.
These narratives these hoes contrive are hilarious.
They just want an easy target and someone to grub off on.
The more I see women talk on this topic the more I understand that a majority don't understand this simple concept. They point to the white and latina women as proof of concept but the forget that these women also were with their husbands from the jump when he just had a plan and goal and they worked with them to make it happen. Some chics look at that and see it as struggle love.You all can potentially too, if you just work with your men lol.