Tia Mowry can pinpoint the exact moment she knew her marriage was over "its about self love "

[NO-BadAzz]

Marriage is not about being happy. It’s about duty. It’s about rearing children. You have a 4 year old and a teenager.

Till death do us part. It’s part of the vow you took


If marriage is about happiness then we are all doomed because a woman is fickle. Her hormones are constantly shifting. Irreconcilable Differences. That killed marriage

She's far from what her Bible and her ancestors practiced and tells her. These new modern chicks are only good for smashing and having fun fun. Nobody wants to be content especially women these days. She broke her vows

Now she's for these streets, she'll find another dude to like/love up on, then the cycle repeats itself.

 

[ajnapoleon]

Wasn't social media rushing to say that it was because he cheated on her? I bet seeing that shyt would hurt my soul being accused of some shyt like that.

Men are not supposed to say anything

We supposed to take the slander

It’s more important for the woman’s feelings to be validated

Even if it’s a rumor or a lie




It’s been said in here to “just ignore it …. That’s what a real man does”




wild thing is if you do say it’s not true it would be said it is true because you care too much to say something



I keep saying image is everything



But I get called a c00n for that on here

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

You're supposed to do that bullshyt BEFORE you get married. Society is so backwards I swear. People make vows before God and break them. Marriage has completely lost its meaning.

 

[CobaltBlue]

I don’t quite know how to put it… but something about bytches these days and their emphasis on “self-love” (especially when they have children) is a slippery slope. Of course, yes by all means be happy with yourself and the mate you chose. But the true goal in life for a man or woman is becoming more selfless. I don’t hear that emphasized enough. “Self-love” can slick turn into Luciferianism. Just doing what the fukk you want.

 

[Standing on business]

Her activity on social media the past 2 years showed what type of time she was on.

And why does she keep speaking publicly about their divorce. She just announced it a month ago and they aren’t even officially divorced yet.

 

[ajnapoleon]

It's amazing to me (well not really tbh lol) that they never seem to understand or grasp the correlation. Or maybe they do and they just don't care to pretend like it's something that needs addressing. Meaning unpacking the baggage of BOTH genders.....but these broads think life on earth started in their polluted used and abused lil tilapia boxes so you can't tell em nothing

True


But to be honest if you was told and validated since you was 14-15 that your above reproach


And your never wrong

And look at

Music
Tv


Sports (young man get drafted he always say I couldn’t do it without mom … even tho pops been there)


You would be unreasonably a bytch yourself

 

[breakfuss]

I don't know their circumstances, but its always been said that women plan the break-up way in advance. She just wasn't feeling ole boy anymore.

Personally I'd NEVER start off a relationship with a woman the way they did, that will always be a bone of contention. I'll be damned if, as a capable man anyone tells me if it wasn't for them I wouldn't have XYZ and I wouldn't be shyt and throw that shyt back in my face...fukk that. Self sufficiency is key no matter how long it takes.

Bruh I said this exact same thing the other day . A woman will be plotting her next move well before she makes it. She can do this all while carrying on as if she ain't going anywhere. Scary hours. @Gloxina @HarlemHottie @Jasmine20 @Hazel Brown @dora_da_destroyer tell me I'm lying .

 

[ajnapoleon]

Her activity on social media the past 2 years showed what type of tune she was on.

And we does she keel speaking publicly about their divorce. She just announced it a month ago and they aren’t even officially divorced yet.

Ayhsa curry is next on the list

 

[VertigoKnight]

This. Men got to realize everything is conditional. There's no ROI for being with someone. That goes for women too. Sounds like Tia saying she couldn't find happiness within her relationship and wanted to "grow". Which means it probably got boring. Once you realize you're not owed anything by anyone and you're just leasing their time the easier it is

Yep you can love somebody but know at any point they can say bye bye. Especially in the modern age of looking after number 1

Some people, mostly men, get too comfortable then get the rug pulled out from under them. Time and time again.

I can enjoy someone and love them, but I always have in the back of my mind that someone can change up. People feel they owe you nothing,over their own happiness even in a years long relationship.

You can of course work towards a healthy and fulfilling relationship but always have a plan for if/when shyt goes sideways.

A lot of men get absolutely KO'ed when their partners call time on their relationship, and don't know what to do with themselves.

Meanwhile a woman will have spent a while going over every angle before she pulls the plug. She's aleady over you enough when she tells you she's breaking up with you.

 

[Umoja]

Nothing happened, the reason she is juelzing is she wanted out. If he did something she would be in victim mode

Exactly. Women, like men, are just human. If a man said what she said, there wouldn't be any doubts over looking to explore her options.

We know that what she is saying isn't about preserving his rep as she had no problem making him out to be controlling because he objected to her posting thirst traps on Instagram.

This generation is going to struggle with commitment. They have dreams of settling down and starting a family. When they accomplish that dream, the grind isn't what they expected and they are tempted by the image of living life circulated in social media.

 

[Sniper]

Bottom line:

She was already unhappy in her marriage, people died around her and she realized that life's short and not guaranteed.

And she didn't want to spend the rest of her life unhappy.

She's not special and didn't have a big awakening.

When you see people who are married for a long time and get divorced, that's usually the same awakening that they have.

 

[Buddy]

Why Lord?

 

[Uitomy]

Sometimes these kind of women make me think they are better off worried about other peoples happiness. It’s like as soon as they focus on their happiness the first thing they do is ostracize themselves from the people closest to them

 

[Fillerguy]

Its always the women saying shyt like this. The men are almost always silent

 

[NO-BadAzz]

"Self-love" only means I'm bored (if I am a woman in a relationship)

"Self -love" only means, I am waiting for GOD to send me a man when I'm not in a relationship

Why is it only black women, mostly with this 'self-love' shyt.

I never heard Corretta Scott King or Betty Shabazz say some goofy shyt like this "self-love" Buy a dog.

Why you never hear Chinese women speak this goof ball shyt.

Black modern women need to stop the goofy shyt and seek therapy